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Gender Recognition Reform - Bill at Holyrood

259 replies

ArabellaScott · 23/10/2022 14:18

This Bill goes to parliament for discussion on Tuesday.

If you'd like to write to your MSPs to raise the issue of women's rights and/or children's rights, here are some useful ideas for points to raise/form letters:

forwomen.scot/08/10/2022/gender-recognition-reform-bill-stage-1-action/

To find your MSPs:

www.writetothem.com/

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promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:14

@Rainbowshit eh no. You need to have concurrent driving licences while you are in transition

Rainbowshit · 22/12/2022 20:16

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:14

@Rainbowshit eh no. You need to have concurrent driving licences while you are in transition

My friend changed both passport and driving licence without having a GRC.

exwhyzed · 22/12/2022 20:18

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:12

@exwhyzed this is a load of absolute nonsense. I don't blame you for buying into it- initially you can think oh my god women are under threat.
But the reality is that if men really wish to abuse women going through the whole self ID process is an extra step that they don't need and it's quite easy to abuse women in the existing system! It's like saying there should be no GPs because of Harold Shipman.
Maybe there will be - or are- one or two bad actors who use self ID to commit a crime. But this doesn't mean self ID is a bad thing. It's a human rights issue that we should support as feminists. And we should have zero tolerance for ANY male abuse of women.
But women can be trans women too Smile

It's an extra step they DO need if they want to access single sex spaces where vulnerable women and children are.

its the GRC that will legally prevent organisations utilising the single sex exemptions in the Equality Act to keep people of the male sex out of female only spaces.

you are exceptionally naive if you believe that there aren't a small but dangerous minority of men out there who will find any loophole to gain access to vulnerable people.

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:21

I'm really sad to see people calling my posts vile.
I'm talking about real people who don't deserve to be treated like this.
What is so scary about them. They are the vast majority.
I remember during section 28 in the 90s gay people were smeared in the same way. Gay teachers would be paedophiles. Straight people wouldn't be safe in swimming pools!!
Those times were vile. Elton John getting married and so many pop stars in the closet.
Guess what. The paedophiles all turned out to be the people we were supposed to trust. The clergy and establishment. Not the homosexuals.

lifeinthelastlane · 22/12/2022 20:23

But women can be trans women too
ok, how do I sign up then?

Rainbowshit · 22/12/2022 20:24

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:21

I'm really sad to see people calling my posts vile.
I'm talking about real people who don't deserve to be treated like this.
What is so scary about them. They are the vast majority.
I remember during section 28 in the 90s gay people were smeared in the same way. Gay teachers would be paedophiles. Straight people wouldn't be safe in swimming pools!!
Those times were vile. Elton John getting married and so many pop stars in the closet.
Guess what. The paedophiles all turned out to be the people we were supposed to trust. The clergy and establishment. Not the homosexuals.

You talked about getting popcorn out to watch all the sexual assaults?! Utterly utterly fucking vile. Shame on you.

Whereareyourshoes · 22/12/2022 20:26

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 18:44

I'm really pleased this has passed. I personally know two trans people one who is a woman and one who is a man. They have children and are happily married and pose no threat whatever to anyone. I only wish them happiness and celebrate with them today.

That’s nice. But this is not just about your lovely trans friends. There are many deeply unpleasant male individuals out there who are now able to exploit this legislation in order to target their victims more easily. And our MSPs in the SNP, Scottish Greens, Lib Dems and Labour don’t want any barriers in place even to sex offenders receiving a GRC.

So your lovely trans friends delight comes at the expense of making life more dangerous for the most vulnerable members of society including disabled women requiring same sex carers, elderly women, women in hospitals and female prisoners now sharing prisons with violent male sex offenders.

Saddened your friends are so selfish to think that’s a price worth paying for a falsified birth certificate.

BinBandit · 22/12/2022 20:27

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:21

I'm really sad to see people calling my posts vile.
I'm talking about real people who don't deserve to be treated like this.
What is so scary about them. They are the vast majority.
I remember during section 28 in the 90s gay people were smeared in the same way. Gay teachers would be paedophiles. Straight people wouldn't be safe in swimming pools!!
Those times were vile. Elton John getting married and so many pop stars in the closet.
Guess what. The paedophiles all turned out to be the people we were supposed to trust. The clergy and establishment. Not the homosexuals.

and yet you have no sympathy with the actual women who will be negatively affected by this or indeed the "lovely" transpeople who are just as likely to be victims?

I'd also stop conflating gay rights with this. You are comparing apples and buses.

lifeinthelastlane · 22/12/2022 20:27

I'm still trying to remember what rights gay people tried to take away from women.
oh yes, none.

MrsAmaretto · 22/12/2022 20:35

I don’t get any of this - all this gender bending, no binary, trans stuff I just don’t understand any of it??

You are not a woman by putting on a pair of tits, clarting your face in make up and wearing a dress. I don’t turn into a man by wearing jeans, cutting my hair short and not plucking my chin hair and chatting about the World Cup. What is going on???

How many folk were trans before it became a TikTok fad?

It’s surely normal to feel your body is weird and doesn’t fit you whilst starting or going through puberty? It’s normal not to identify with “gender norms” Look at 1970 &80s childhood photos - as a girl I had a bowl cut and brown dungarees and played with normal coloured Lego.

i just don’t get why we need this law? Why I need to know your pronouns, why there is all this fucking fuss. Why must I say you are a woman when I know you’re male or vice versa?

I just don’t get this? It’s 2022 you can wear what you like, shag who you want and I’ll accept you, why is the rest of this necessary? Why are health services talking about chest feeding and people who menstruate - wtaf?

I just don’t get how such a teeny tiny small number of people who feel like this have led to all this happening? I don’t understand what’s going on?

exwhyzed · 22/12/2022 20:41

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:21

I'm really sad to see people calling my posts vile.
I'm talking about real people who don't deserve to be treated like this.
What is so scary about them. They are the vast majority.
I remember during section 28 in the 90s gay people were smeared in the same way. Gay teachers would be paedophiles. Straight people wouldn't be safe in swimming pools!!
Those times were vile. Elton John getting married and so many pop stars in the closet.
Guess what. The paedophiles all turned out to be the people we were supposed to trust. The clergy and establishment. Not the homosexuals.

I think you will find a strong correlation between women who were anti section 28 and women who see the flaws in the GRC.

and well done for highlighting the point I was trying to make that men who want to abuse will find any loophole. Good safeguarding procedures are in place now in response to abuses by men in positions of trust.

The GRC / Self ID stuff blows those safeguarding procedures apart. It creates loopholes for men who want to abuse them.

this isn't about transwomen it's about abusive men riding on the back of transrights to abuse the loopholes it creates.

SpottyBumPony · 22/12/2022 20:42

MrsAmaretto · 22/12/2022 20:35

I don’t get any of this - all this gender bending, no binary, trans stuff I just don’t understand any of it??

You are not a woman by putting on a pair of tits, clarting your face in make up and wearing a dress. I don’t turn into a man by wearing jeans, cutting my hair short and not plucking my chin hair and chatting about the World Cup. What is going on???

How many folk were trans before it became a TikTok fad?

It’s surely normal to feel your body is weird and doesn’t fit you whilst starting or going through puberty? It’s normal not to identify with “gender norms” Look at 1970 &80s childhood photos - as a girl I had a bowl cut and brown dungarees and played with normal coloured Lego.

i just don’t get why we need this law? Why I need to know your pronouns, why there is all this fucking fuss. Why must I say you are a woman when I know you’re male or vice versa?

I just don’t get this? It’s 2022 you can wear what you like, shag who you want and I’ll accept you, why is the rest of this necessary? Why are health services talking about chest feeding and people who menstruate - wtaf?

I just don’t get how such a teeny tiny small number of people who feel like this have led to all this happening? I don’t understand what’s going on?

Spot on!

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:51

Please listen to yourselves.
If men commit sexual assault they are committing a crime.
If they are using self ID to this -> still a crime.

The problem is MALE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN
women from birth / trans women
There are no safe spaces !! All spaces should be accessible to all without fear!!

Do you want to have apartheid where "real" women get to live separately but equal? Or should we all live in a better society where all are safe no matter who they are?

The false dichotomy that evil men will sneak in as trans is just another fear driven facet of your own oppression... sisters

AlisonDonut · 22/12/2022 20:55

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:51

Please listen to yourselves.
If men commit sexual assault they are committing a crime.
If they are using self ID to this -> still a crime.

The problem is MALE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN
women from birth / trans women
There are no safe spaces !! All spaces should be accessible to all without fear!!

Do you want to have apartheid where "real" women get to live separately but equal? Or should we all live in a better society where all are safe no matter who they are?

The false dichotomy that evil men will sneak in as trans is just another fear driven facet of your own oppression... sisters

Why do we even bother safeguarding if men are going to do what they want when they want to who they want and we can't believe women anyway as it is their word against the men and we always doubt the women as they just have an axe to grind anyway so why do we even bother?

BinBandit · 22/12/2022 20:56

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:51

Please listen to yourselves.
If men commit sexual assault they are committing a crime.
If they are using self ID to this -> still a crime.

The problem is MALE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN
women from birth / trans women
There are no safe spaces !! All spaces should be accessible to all without fear!!

Do you want to have apartheid where "real" women get to live separately but equal? Or should we all live in a better society where all are safe no matter who they are?

The false dichotomy that evil men will sneak in as trans is just another fear driven facet of your own oppression... sisters

says the woman that wants to sit and eat popcorn while women get raped and assaulted - how about you listen to others?

The problem is men, some men, men who have now been given extra opportunity to attack and assault vulnerable women without any checks and balances.

When these men rock up minus their cock and balls which they've paid to have removed and not on the NHS then I'll be more comfortable with them being in women only spaces.

BedTaker · 22/12/2022 20:57

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 20:51

Please listen to yourselves.
If men commit sexual assault they are committing a crime.
If they are using self ID to this -> still a crime.

The problem is MALE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN
women from birth / trans women
There are no safe spaces !! All spaces should be accessible to all without fear!!

Do you want to have apartheid where "real" women get to live separately but equal? Or should we all live in a better society where all are safe no matter who they are?

The false dichotomy that evil men will sneak in as trans is just another fear driven facet of your own oppression... sisters

I don't understand your point. At all.

Th problem is male violence. As a class, males are high risk. Which is why my loveoy DH who is not a threat to women at all and would never hurt anyone is, quite rightly not allowed in female spaces. Because he is male. Transwomen are male. Males who go and get a GRC by filling in an online form are male.

Can you please tell me the magical point at which a male who says he is a woman comes out of the high risk category of male?

BedTaker · 22/12/2022 20:58

Do you want to have apartheid where "real" women get to live separately but equal? Or should we all live in a better society where all are safe no matter who they are?

I want a society where all are safe.

Go and take it up with Katie Dolatowski and all the other violent men who can't seem to stop raping and assaulting women.

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 21:01

@BedTaker can you tell me which safe spaces these are ? I really can't think of any ?

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 21:05

Also @BedTaker can we please dial this down to some sort of reality check- it's not the main issue. Violence against women is absolutely systemic and we should be fighting this as a sisterhood. Let's not allow 5 bad men a year to distract us from the women ( including trans women)who are killed, violated and oppressed mainly in their own homes daily in this country.

ditalini · 22/12/2022 21:14

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 19:42

That's actually quite important @ditalini if you want to get a passport, driving license or any legal documents. So having to hide your identity for 2 years is closeting.

That's not true. I think your friends have been telling you porkie pies...

You're oddly incurious re: the ins and outs of transition for someone who was following this legislation so closely.

BinBandit · 22/12/2022 21:14

Why is it that vulnerable women are the ones that are required to take the risks and be accommodating whilst men and in particular predatory men don't just stop being abusive, violent and rapey? How about Scottish government come up with some legislation about that instead?

Whereareyourshoes · 22/12/2022 21:14

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 21:05

Also @BedTaker can we please dial this down to some sort of reality check- it's not the main issue. Violence against women is absolutely systemic and we should be fighting this as a sisterhood. Let's not allow 5 bad men a year to distract us from the women ( including trans women)who are killed, violated and oppressed mainly in their own homes daily in this country.

Which 5 bad men are you talking about?

promisetobehave · 22/12/2022 21:21

@BinBandit its legislation, so it's never going to look for the outliers.
Especially Scottish legislation which comes from a completely different perspective from English legislation.
Justice is seen as impartial.
If you'd like me to actually identify these 5 mythical men sorry ...

BinBandit · 22/12/2022 21:23

In E&W, half of all M2F prisoners are sex offenders or class A violent prisoners. European studies showed that transitioning (including having surgery) did not reduce the patterns of offending associated with birth sex.