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Guilt Free Railing 7

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WouldBeGood · 14/05/2021 23:20

Perhaps needed

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WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 11:30

We are very far from free.

I don’t mean you have to agree, but we are miles and miles away from normal. And I like normal.

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ssd · 13/06/2021 11:38

Its a state of mind. Normal isn't going to return for a while. So we either live as normal as we can or stay in and complain we cant do xyz when we could do stuff if we worked round it. I dont like it anymore than the next person but I'm out doing stuff, ive always worked through this and thats about it. I dont care if i cant go to a play, theatre or nightclub I'll do something else.

ssd · 13/06/2021 11:42

I know as well as anyone this isn't normal but being like i want normality or i wont do anything is as daft as folk who wear a mask for one trip to asda then refuse to ever do it again as their glasses steamed up. There's a pandemic on and things aren't normal so we need to find the best way to live as normal as we can without spitting the dummy out and staying in.

WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 11:46

It’s not a state of mind.

I do not feel positive and I don’t have to. I am finding this shite. I can feel my depression of last year returning.

I am not and never have been afraid of Covid. I am terrified of my life being controlled by the state to this extent.

I’m complaining and railing on the guilt free railing thread.

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WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 11:47

And I’ll spit my fucking dummy out if I want.

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ssd · 13/06/2021 11:50

Of course you can do what you want. But youre doing yourself no favours. Bit like me when i was terrified of everything. Nothing is going to change soon so change yourself and get out there.

ssd · 13/06/2021 11:53

Im not being nasty to you wouldbegood. But i can see youre getting bogged down with railing and i feel its affecting you too much. Do you get out and about? Im being genuine.

WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 11:54

Aaaaargh!!!!!!!

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ElephantOfRisk · 13/06/2021 11:55

m not desperate for all restrictions to be removed, sure if i was wfm and went out once in a blue moon I'd be shouting for their removal as it doesn't particularly affect me.

But if it wasn't for the masks and social distancing we wouldn't be having to work at home and only go out once in a blue moon if we don't like masks?

I do appreciate lots of people haven't had any choice but i'd happily do working with customer and public transport and with being in the office with no restrictions.

I know this has affected everyone differently though and it's really good that you are feeling more free, you deserve to feel happy that you are able to enjoy those things.

I just can't get past the utter shite of it all, why does it make people safer for me to wear a mask to walk 5 paces to a table? Answer is that it doesn't, it's an absolute farce and puts me off going anywhere.

WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 11:55

Maybe start a positive thinking resilient mindfulness thread @ssd

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ssd · 13/06/2021 12:10

No bother.

Y0uCann0tBeSer10us · 13/06/2021 12:49

My current rail is that we have one child in quarantine after a burst bubble and now, at zero notice, have to force them to do online school work (which they hate) while also somehow juggling a full time job and multiple zoom meetings. Child is not ill in any way and has tested negative. The masks and distancing are an annoying reminder that we are still very far from 'normal' but it's the quarantine rules, which apply even if no-one is ill and hang over you constantly and could drop at any time, that I'm finding really oppressive and would like to see the back of.

WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 13:40

Oh, lord @Y0uCann0tBeSer10us what a nightmare.

Yes, these rules are a bloody nightmare

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WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 13:40

So bad I used two nightmares

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mibbelucieachwell · 13/06/2021 13:47

We're so far from normal!

Youcannotbeserious how rubbish. I'd be tempted to do whatever you can to make your life easier now. If your DC are old enough to play by themselves while you wfh I'm sure it won't harm them so close to the end of term.

I had an anxious week of some of my private pupils self isolating and worrying that I would become a close contact and not be allowed to go to London for my son's final degree performance. The day before we were going 2 of the students tested positive for Covid. Loads of close contacts as they play in lots of each other's performances. DS waiting to hear if anyone in his group a close contact.

We went anyway. (A cancelled event wouldn't be sufficient reason for a refund on the hotel and train. ) DS' group mates confirmed as close contacts of a new case. Advised (incorrectly) that negative PCR tests would allow the performance to go ahead as scheduled) But uncertain if the test result would be back in time. Subsequently informed that performance not allowed as self isolation required for DS' group members. Flatmates now close contacts too and feeling ropey, waiting for test results.

In the meantime we spent the day (outside) with DS. On our way home one of his flatmates test came back positive. DS now a close contact obviously. Track and trace called him today and invited him to participate in the daily testing study of close contacts!!! So once he gets the LF tests in the post, provided his daily test is negative he can go out for 'essential' purposes. PCR on day 2 and 5 or 8 I forget. What a rollercoaster.

Such a hassle and possible expense for staff all these students who now have to wait for their final degree performances to be rescheduled. It's small fry compared to the worry for plenty of other people who might test positive or have to self isolate, but really ssd for you to say it's a state of mind..... I'm sorry I feel the need to say, talk about pot calling the kettle black when you suggest wouldbegood is over invested in this thread.

Now will have the uncertainty of being a close contact in the run up to DS rescheduled degree performance, which I know isn't much in the grand scheme, but it's still another cloud on my skyline.

ssd · 13/06/2021 14:04

I can see my posts have been taken out of context. Time to leave the thread.

ElephantOfRisk · 13/06/2021 15:24

My rail is that i am exhausted as next door's asshole teen decided to have folk round in the shed, drinking, shouting music. Went round near half 1 as couldn't get to sleep, got a pile of lip back and they continued to make noise until sometime after 4am. In between i logged it with 101 on-line (felt like a real MNetter doing that!). Then I noticed his car was away so he's been out driving and will be clearly over the limit.

Then got woken up before 8 with DH's alarm.

Trying to get organised for going on holiday and everyone seems to have unreasonable requests such as haircuts. Asked a final time for any washing, specifically asked DH if he had anything half worn and unwashed and for masks - nada, put the bits I had plus DS1 gave me a couple things. Then DH decides to lay his clothes out, a couple of bits with food stains, and maybe he thinks he could have done with some new shorts and trousers..... Gahhhh.

And to cap it all off, it's my birthday today. Up until a couple of minutes ago there was no acknowledgment of that fact until DS2 handed me some wine and chocolates. DH and DS1 still seemingly oblivious. Now, we don't really do a lot for birthdays and I'm really not fussed about cards and gifts but wondering when exactly DH is going to remember. All I really expected was to be wished happy birthday - that's not unreasonable I don't think.

WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 15:27

Oh no! @ElephantOfRisk. That’s all shite.

Sometimes I’m glad to be divorced 😂

Happy Birthday to you! 💐🍾

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WouldBeGood · 13/06/2021 15:32

*not that I’m advocating divorce!

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ElephantOfRisk · 13/06/2021 15:41

Don't get me wrong, in general we get on great and I'm not angry, just a bit disappointed. I mean, I conveniently have my birthday the same date every year to make it easier...

We are trying to get organised to go away. Normal Birthday would be deciding where to go out, obviously didn't happen last year and this year would have just allocated one of our meals next week as my "birthday dinner", but it's not even been mentioned. I'm not going to say anything but when I hand round my chocolates next week i'll ask if anyone wants one of my birthday chocolates and watch the penny drop...Grin

titsintiers · 13/06/2021 16:20

Happy birthday @ElephantOfRisk. I wouldn't share the chocolates.

My teeny tiny rail is that I'm sunburned after a nice weekend away with friends 😎

runningpink · 13/06/2021 17:25

Happy Birthday @ElephantOfRisk

Groovee · 13/06/2021 18:10

Happy Birthday 🎂 @ElephantOfRisk

Groovee · 13/06/2021 18:12

Mr G has been recommended for home working... I chuckled at the idea a gas engineer can work from home... so he'll get a laptop and headphones to take calls to help diagnose faults. 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm not sure I'm wanting this disturbing my summer holidays.

rookiemere · 13/06/2021 19:04

Happy birthday @ElephantOfRisk - I'd not be keeping quiet about it, I'd be making a bloody great fuss about it

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