I've just been in and asked him about 20 times if he slept with her and he says no. I think I almost believe him. I do think he's behaving like some lovestruck schoolboy and he really is a tit. But I still love him (although not enough to want him to be happy with her ha ha ha ha).
They've worked together for a couple of years. It's only recently (in the last few months) I've been hearing her name more and more though.
There isn't much to tell. He has been withdrawing for a while now but I was on ML and assumed I had too much time to think about it. I do think the times fit. He never said I love you unless I said it first, and not often then. He's always been helpful and supportive but he says he's in love with her. I think he stopped saying it out of some twisted sense of not wanting to lie to me.
There have been a few incidents. One is when he said he ran into her on that thing that turned out to be a date. We also went to a friend's party. We went separately (my idea) because he was working and I had to get back home for a delivery. I assumed he was following on and he was 2 hours later. I gave him loads of shit for that (and have just done again because I just remembered it). There is a third and fourth (happened this weekend) but if I go into detail I may out myself more than I probably already have. He has been getting really secretive about his phone, something he never did before. I found a photo on his phone, nothing dirty but it was inappropriate for a work colleague. I confronted him straight away but he lied to me about it. Fucking hell.
He is so good with our son and he is a really easy baby. I'm having trouble believing that it's that much of a responsibility.
Their work changed significantly around March time and they all got really stressed. I think this fits with what he has been saying about Easter.
Shit, I really do need to go to bed soon.