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ALL NEW Road to Recovery for the Recently Ditched No3

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startingovernow · 12/03/2010 21:44

Dearly Be-Chucked, we are gathered here today because, for whatever reason, our man has dumped us!

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maybees · 22/03/2010 23:39

No just when I read your post I thought your X had bedded CDB !

maybees · 22/03/2010 23:41

Now thats more shameful than FB surely ?

startingovernow · 22/03/2010 23:46

Maybees, don't know about that! Will have to ponder it.............

I'll save it for meet up .

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maybees · 22/03/2010 23:48

Why are you ashamed?

Have been eating a lot of choc biscuits myself recently ,mice came back and ate one too .Not seen cat for a while ,need to pencil him in for another pep talk.....

startingovernow · 22/03/2010 23:49

Had to put away choc delights, feel seriously sick, don't know what came over me tonight!

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startingovernow · 22/03/2010 23:52

Maybees, am ashamed because the fuckwit I married & choose to be father/role model for dc's is ADVERTISING on FB for women!

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startingovernow · 22/03/2010 23:54

Sh*t, I'll have acne for Wed! Will have no option now but to go the make up route .

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maybees · 22/03/2010 23:54

Has anyone seen moviegirl hope your cool ,

nite Startin' early one 2morrow x

IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 23/03/2010 00:00

nite y'all

Movie seems to have disappeared

Don't worry Starting, you're 100 times more fabulous than anything he's going to find on FB

maybees · 23/03/2010 00:05

You have NOTHING to be ashamed of he is just trying to be young and cant help himself being a twat, what is facebook anyway ?

re spots I just cant leave em alone thats why they go messy you'll be fine big hugs x

ChairmumMiaowGoingItAlone · 23/03/2010 07:29

Oh no! I've just provisionally arranged to meet a friend in London on the 10th! We're planning to go to lunch and see a matinee show! Can't afford to do overnight too

startingovernow · 23/03/2010 09:53

Happy, you are so right!

Maybees, I don't get the whole fb thing! MN is my only vice!

Chairmum, I'm sure we'll be able to sort something out. Have you another day that suits??

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IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 23/03/2010 10:22

I'm sure we can sort something out......or try anyway

How about if anyone that wants to meet up CAT's me and then we can agree a date and a location that suits most by email. I'll then notify the Daily Mail separately

If you are BE's OW, please don't CAT me.

Mumfun · 23/03/2010 13:19

I could hopefully do 10th! Will cat If Your!

pinksmarties · 23/03/2010 19:23

PMSL at "worse, just making a cuppa and think I might need something else to go with it"

"twunt advertising for female friendship or possibly more"

and "will contact the Daily Mail seperately"

Bloody hillarious.

Don't think I'm cattable but will investigate forthwith.

Loads of luck tomorow starting. Won't you be tempted to let him know you've seen him in full twatishness on FB ? If only to bring a little blush to his twuntish cheeks.

startingovernow · 23/03/2010 19:37

Hi Happy, for some reason my paymt is never accepted for cat either. Just tried it again there! You might have my email from before & if not I'll sort something once everyone else is sorted.

Pink, glad I gave you a laugh anyway. Have been dying sick with a terrible cold all day which obviously explains my insane eating! Could really do without the whole burning up, runny nost thing when I've to face exh tomorrow.......

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pinksmarties · 23/03/2010 19:57

Starting, sorry you've got a cold, you might wake up tomorow and feel much better.

My card never worked on the internet so I went to the bank and they had one digit wrong on my date of birth. They sorted it straight away and issued me with a new card.

I've paid for c-a-t. Don't know how to do it but will cat happy in a min.

startingovernow · 23/03/2010 20:17

I've tried two different cards but neither work .

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startingovernow · 23/03/2010 20:20

Pink, his twatish behaviour on FB will be the least of my worries tomorrow! Will be a gruelling day I'd say .

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maybees · 23/03/2010 21:00

Hope everyone cool .
Early nite for me 2nite will try and organise cat 2morrow.
Had to be assertive mumsy 2day and it all went really well .It is amazing what happens when you set yourself a higher standard in life ,everybody treats you better

Best of luck 2morrow Startin' hope you feel fab in the morning!
Hope you have plenty of support in court.
Will hear how it went 2morrow.

Chin up tits out in court 2morrow ,dumpling!
We are all supporting you x

startingovernow · 23/03/2010 21:05

Hi Maybees, thanks for the words of support. Glad to hear you're taking care of you. I'm off for a bath & early night too. Will be back at some point while I'm painting my nails .

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ChairmumMiaowGoingItAlone · 23/03/2010 21:16

starting - Good luck for tomorrow. I hope it all goes as well as it can.

ChairmumMiaowGoingItAlone · 23/03/2010 21:37

I'm having a good test of my positive thinking / letting go today.

H is normally online a lot (well pretty much all of the time) and today he hasn't been. I've been comforted feeling he has been sitting around in his flat on the internet looking for something to do, someone to talk to - and now I'm wondering what he's up to (thinking he's out with another woman or something)

I know its not good for me to be aware of him so much, but its a habit I haven't managed to break yet - and I'm not going to take him off facebook etc as we're using those things to communicate about DS, and its working well as far as that goes.

I'm not getting upset about it or anything, but I am thinking about what he is doing - which is not what I want. Arrggh.

IfYoureHappyAndYouKnowIt · 23/03/2010 22:03

Chairmum - try not to think about it, hold your dumpling head up high, eat chocs, have a glass of wine and arrange some nights out!

Starting - lots and lots of luck for tomorrow. Your fabulosity will shine through and the dumplings will be at your side. If anything throws your calmness just think "what would a dumpling do now" and you'll get through it.

Starting, MumFun, Chairmum, Maybees, Pink - I will try to c-a-t you and see if it works. If anyone else is interested, c-a-t me and let me know.

By the way, this ISN'T about the meet up, but I was thinking today ... we don't have any male dumplings - why is that and how do we feel about it?

teaandcakeplease · 23/03/2010 22:07

I'm off to bed ladies after watching tv and eating cadbury eclairs, I'm going to get sooooo fat if I don't stop eating cr*p soon

Goodluck tomorrow starting, will be thinking of you x

I'll try and catch up on today's posts properly tomorrow at some point and reply appropriately.

I'm not able to CAT as haven't signed up for that yet.

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