Oral sex...advice needed [blush]

[truoddsox]

Sorry for the graphic topic but I really want some advice.
DP and I have been together for nearly 4 years, and this is something I've never "given" (for want of a better word) him. I'm a bit shy when it comes to initiating anything sexual, which he says is silly as he's always up for it and enjoys what I do.
Anyway, I feel bad for not doing it but I just don't know how to initiate, I'm worried about hurting him/gagging etc. Can anyone offer any tips/advice?
BTW - he doesn't force the issue or even mention it - this is just me wanting ro "reciprocate" occasionally, iyswim.

OK, first thing is that while many women like giving head (I do ) some hate it, and it's alright if you do it's not the be all and end all. But if you want to have a try I will try and think of some tips...
OK:

• Rule 1 is don't use your teeth. If you don't do that, there's pretty much no way you can hurt him. Willies are quite robust - have you ever seen a guy wank? I was quite shocked the first time at how hard they do it.

• Maybe have a shower or bath together first to make everything's nice and clean!

• Don't try to go for the back of the throat thing straight away, it could trigger your gag reflex and put you off.

• Start by licking round the head, especially there's a sensitive little triange just under the helmet.

• Get your lips round the head, then work down slowly. If it starts to feels yuck and too deep then stop and just do the top bit

• Not many women can get the whole thing in. Use your hand on the base otherwise you will get tired!

• Some men like it if you stimulate their balls with your hand.

• If you don't fancy the idea of him coming in your mouth, then just wank him off for the last bit or jump on top of him

• Spitting/swallowing, if you go that far, your choice obviously.

HTH!

brahms, let's hope OP isn't really a hairy-handed trucker/adolescent boy

Oh dear, this is a bit um frank!

Probably best get a book?

Best advice make sure everythings nice and clean.

whatever you do, he'll love it- just don't be squeamish.

On a more personal level I love my chaps willy, I often fall asleep clutching it. Bit like one of those stress queedgy thingys.

That I am the only one who went all-out with blow job advice!

expat has some brilliant advice - i will do a search...

BTR You were great, clearly you have lots of experience

here

Brahms, that was beautiful, just beautiful...

Brahms has given you all the advice you need, now you just need to start and clock up some experieince, just relax and enjoy yourself, he will love it!

Lighthouse is laughing lots

Think we have embarrased her

Shame...

I am bloody good though. Do what I say and you won't go far wrong.

Bloody hell I hhope my lurking DH doesn't stumble across this later or Brahms might find herself the subject of her own thread

Lick the alphabet....

i second everything Brahms has said.

I find that you will enjoy it more knowing that he is enjoying it.
don;t just go straight for the cock though, start by kissing him and then slowly kiss your way down his body, miss his cock and kiss his thighs then work your way back up. the suspense feels lovely and it builds the anticipation so much that ANY touch of the cock feels even better.

another tip for a different sensation is to make sure you get lots of saliva in your mouth so that your almost dribbling on him, make the tip realy wet and then gently blow air onto the tip. it feels cold and tingly.

AS has been said, deep throat is not easy and is not essential for a good blow job. i give fucking amazing head and i can't do it.

Instead of gagging yourself, take in as much as you can and use your hand to wank the lower part whilst you do it. then every now and then lift your mouth off and run your tongue up and down the shaft. flicking your tongu across the main shaft quite quickly gets a good response too.

oh and..

i always position myself so that DP can reach my fanjo so im not left out

oh and another hint for when you feel a bit more confident.

brush your teeth but dont rinse too well.

apparently it feels a lot like space dust on the helmet

nothing like being modest Mamazon!

last sentence of mamazon's post is most important

I'm sorry but what is space dust?

oh its like popping candy. feels all tingly.

you can buy minty cock rub that does teh same thing but toothpaste is so much cheaper and you end up with a lovely smile

glad you agree Brahms.

modesty is for whimps

I've never involved toothpaste in the proceedings. I've always had a vague notion that minty things should be kept away from willies. When I was at school my friend was dared to put one of those minty fresh breath sheet things under his foreskin, and he said it was like his knob was on fire and his eyes were watering all through History. Did I mention I went to a private school?

mamazon- how do you know all of this feels like stuff- are you a bloke? or is it what they tell you?

yeah too much is a bad bad BAD thing.

never be tempted to just squirt some colgate on his todger.

but if you dont rinse your teeth off thoroughly there's just enough mintyness to feel good without hurting him.

and for any lurking school boys - most of these tips will work on girls too