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Is this a community or not?

138 replies

Goshitsaman · 10/11/2009 10:36

This might turn into a bit of a ramble and a bit of a rant. This is my first posting for a couple of months and my first lengthy spell surfing the site for almost as long. I'm puzzled at the way some of you seem to deal with trolls or perhaps I should say suspected trolls. I read many commercial and non-commercial newsgroups and I cannot think of a single unmoderated group and only one moderated group where trolls don't post. But what I don't see on these other sites is such a tiny sub group so grossly over-reacting to trolls. On Mumsnet the same few people seem to post their suspicions and then "run to teacher" (where teacher = Mumsnet HQ) again and again and again. But if you read other threads on Mumsnet people fairly overwhelmingly express negative views on these "troll hunters" but the hunters just go with their campaigning. Why not just accept the majority view on this matter?

Eg, other posters have explained clearly, calmly and well exactly what the dangers are in the "automatic suspicion about a first posting" reaction. Talk about falling on deaf ears . People might turn to Mumsnet in a moment of crisis only to get savaged by this tiny clique. For clique it is.

If you are not happy about a thread ignore it. The rest of us are big boys and girls well able to make our own decisions on veracity, participation or boycott or whatever. If one genuine poster runs away because of your antics or if one useful thread, even if started by a troll, gets terminated because of your obsession with trolls then the community as a whole is the loser. I find your actions both selfish and unwanted.

Flame proof underwear is now in place

OP posts:
whoisasking · 10/11/2009 14:03

It's the personal itching I can't stand.

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 14:03

You know I try to avoid personal itching, BOF

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 14:05

Eerily similar x posts

Perhaps I am not an individual after all

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 10/11/2009 14:08

AmuminScotland, are you me?

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 14:09

Is Brian a troll?

How did I miss that thread?

whoisasking · 10/11/2009 14:12

Meep!

AMumInScotland · 10/11/2009 14:15

He's not a troll, he's a very naughty boy!

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 14:17

Never mind. Always look on the bright side of life, I say

AnyFucker · 10/11/2009 14:18

very funny thread

toomanystuffedbears · 10/11/2009 14:21

Well then,
my imaginary friend might be a troll!
At least it isn't my imaginary identity...

Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 15:09

I am having an identify crisis? The Extended Reality keeps biting me.

Portofino · 10/11/2009 15:10

I went to a meeting and came back - and the world has gone mad!

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Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 15:11

Mummy, mummy, Reality just bit me.

PictureInTheAttic · 10/11/2009 15:11

Have only read the OP, but I think that there are some delightful people on here- very kind. Perhaps you should offer them an olive branch?

Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 15:13

To re-share the joke here, RealityBites, the OP and Iamapolytoo are of course the same person. As of course are two other posters in this thread - a free spork to the groin for the first person to correctly identify them. Extended is a matter of some debate but the owner of a borderline accepable user name is in the frame.

One guess was quite close but no banana yet.

Alas poor spork, I knew him well.

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 15:15

You can repeat it all you like, OP, but it was boring the first time and it's even more boring now.

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

whoisasking · 10/11/2009 15:17

I'm really worried about you Iamapolytoo. I think you might be a bit poorly in the brain area.

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 15:21

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AbricotsSecs · 10/11/2009 15:27

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Iamapolytunnel · 10/11/2009 15:32

I think you are very unkind to trolls! They have a hard enough time, living under bridges, eating goats, shagging their sister's husbands etc

MorrisZapp · 10/11/2009 16:00

Troll hunter and proud.

AnyFucker · 10/11/2009 16:02

dear Gawd, reality

is that man an acquaintance of yours ?

he is hot

do you have his number ?

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