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Is this a community or not?

138 replies

Goshitsaman · 10/11/2009 10:36

This might turn into a bit of a ramble and a bit of a rant. This is my first posting for a couple of months and my first lengthy spell surfing the site for almost as long. I'm puzzled at the way some of you seem to deal with trolls or perhaps I should say suspected trolls. I read many commercial and non-commercial newsgroups and I cannot think of a single unmoderated group and only one moderated group where trolls don't post. But what I don't see on these other sites is such a tiny sub group so grossly over-reacting to trolls. On Mumsnet the same few people seem to post their suspicions and then "run to teacher" (where teacher = Mumsnet HQ) again and again and again. But if you read other threads on Mumsnet people fairly overwhelmingly express negative views on these "troll hunters" but the hunters just go with their campaigning. Why not just accept the majority view on this matter?

Eg, other posters have explained clearly, calmly and well exactly what the dangers are in the "automatic suspicion about a first posting" reaction. Talk about falling on deaf ears . People might turn to Mumsnet in a moment of crisis only to get savaged by this tiny clique. For clique it is.

If you are not happy about a thread ignore it. The rest of us are big boys and girls well able to make our own decisions on veracity, participation or boycott or whatever. If one genuine poster runs away because of your antics or if one useful thread, even if started by a troll, gets terminated because of your obsession with trolls then the community as a whole is the loser. I find your actions both selfish and unwanted.

Flame proof underwear is now in place

OP posts:
Defluffmyfanjo · 10/11/2009 16:07

Confused, im pregnant, pls put me out of my misery...

extended - was that the nutter who sleeps with her husband and sister's husband and conceived their kids on a windy night in the barn? Whose parents died in some horrendous shotgun accident or something???

then polywhatsit - was that the one who then came on the thread to say that they were a poly but extended wasn't and extended was just trying to discredit polys?

then PITA - very amusing funny posts, probably a regular just having a laugh? And was she the one whose hamster or something died and they had a service around the loo??

Help me now!!

AnyFucker · 10/11/2009 16:09

defluff, yes

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 16:10

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DuelingFanjo · 10/11/2009 16:15

Have only read the op and the one where you tell people to 'shut the fuck up' - how rude.

I think...if anyone cares... that 'troll' is used in the wrong way on this site.

When we get people trying to draw people into helping them with fake situations that's not a troll, it's a mental health issue and those people should be outed IMO because they create a lot of worry and upset for people who are just trying to help.

Trolls are just the nutters who come on and post funny or inflamatory garbage and I don't think there's anything wrong with immediately shouting 'troll' at them because they are usually so obvious.

MadameDefarge · 10/11/2009 17:01

I am most in awe of these newbie blokes who post once or twice, then start threads about how mean troll hunters are.

How very civic minded of them. All that quantitive market research they got MORI to undertake to find out the definitive MN view on trolls.

SolidGoldBangers · 10/11/2009 18:46

MadameDefarge: OI! Do not cast nasturtiums on my other line of work! We did not never... ooh, hang on

Anyway, isn't this the thread about shitting on men for fun and money excitement?

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 18:48

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MadameDefarge · 10/11/2009 19:20

apologies sgb, what was I thinking?

BaronessBarbaraKingstanding · 10/11/2009 20:34

To the OP:

No, to me it's not a community. It's a place to idle away soem time, but I know others perceive it differnetly and it has a diffrent place in ther lives.

And the troll hunting is very tiresome. people shout 'troll' and you thnk well yes it may/may not be, weird thngs do happen to eople very weird things, but does it actaully matter much either way anyway?

But those who do troll must derive some pleasure form that and troll hunters get much plaesure from spotting them so I guess it's win win. Don't get either viewpoint myself though.

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 21:17

What a great way of looking at it

lighthouse · 10/11/2009 21:37

This is really funny I have been LMAO at this post, hilarious! By the way, whats a Troll hunter?

CitizenPrecious · 10/11/2009 22:02

we are all Troll hunters here, lighthouse

SolidGoldBangers · 11/11/2009 00:15

I'm not and neither is my foof

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