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Is this a community or not?

138 replies

Goshitsaman · 10/11/2009 10:36

This might turn into a bit of a ramble and a bit of a rant. This is my first posting for a couple of months and my first lengthy spell surfing the site for almost as long. I'm puzzled at the way some of you seem to deal with trolls or perhaps I should say suspected trolls. I read many commercial and non-commercial newsgroups and I cannot think of a single unmoderated group and only one moderated group where trolls don't post. But what I don't see on these other sites is such a tiny sub group so grossly over-reacting to trolls. On Mumsnet the same few people seem to post their suspicions and then "run to teacher" (where teacher = Mumsnet HQ) again and again and again. But if you read other threads on Mumsnet people fairly overwhelmingly express negative views on these "troll hunters" but the hunters just go with their campaigning. Why not just accept the majority view on this matter?

Eg, other posters have explained clearly, calmly and well exactly what the dangers are in the "automatic suspicion about a first posting" reaction. Talk about falling on deaf ears . People might turn to Mumsnet in a moment of crisis only to get savaged by this tiny clique. For clique it is.

If you are not happy about a thread ignore it. The rest of us are big boys and girls well able to make our own decisions on veracity, participation or boycott or whatever. If one genuine poster runs away because of your antics or if one useful thread, even if started by a troll, gets terminated because of your obsession with trolls then the community as a whole is the loser. I find your actions both selfish and unwanted.

Flame proof underwear is now in place

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Portofino · 10/11/2009 12:55

Bella I just choked on my coffee!

quinne · 10/11/2009 13:04

I agree, the troll hunters are a clique who are trying to dominate MN.

CitizenPrecious · 10/11/2009 13:05

Extended starting a handwringing "why oh why" thread about trollhunters??

you're not funny, mate, and you give me the creeps

CitizenPrecious · 10/11/2009 13:07

bollocks.

that should of course have been "torch and spork" cupboard

...should it?

how about "spork, torch and pitchfork cupboard"??

shite. now I've ruined my exit

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 13:10
Grin
RealityBites · 10/11/2009 13:10

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AMumInScotland · 10/11/2009 13:32

I'm sometimes irritated by people calling "troll" for seemingly little reason, but then I'm also sometimes irritated by trolls. But I'm particularly irritated by people starting threads to tell everyone else that we ought to do things their way, as if that individual had some particular right to decide for the rest of us.

And when the individual in question seems to have a dubious posting history, that's spectacularly hypocritical!

I will continue to feel free to call troll when I think a thread is trolling, particularly if I think that some people on the thread are being taken in. And I'll feel free to argue against people calling troll if I think they're over-reacting. Simple, innit?

If lots of people call troll on the same thread, that doesn't mean they're a clique. They're probably people like me who are on here a lot ( too much lately, I'll admit it...) and recognise some of the regular trolls from very small telltale points.

Though some are so blatantly obvious you don't need to be on here much to spot them

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 13:43

Hear hear

Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 13:43

To share the joke here, RealityBites, the OP and Iamapolytoo are of course the same person. As of course are two other posters in this thread - a free spork to the groin for the first person to correctly identify them. Extended is a matter of some debate but a borderline accepable user name is in the frame.

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 13:44

Ooh, I do like a free spork, do tell...

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BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 13:47

Well said, AMuminScotland

Oooh, golly, aren't you clever OP - we's is all too darn fick to work that one out for sure

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 10/11/2009 13:47

Is it me?!

It is, isn't it?!

Can I have a spork now?

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 13:49
RealityBites · 10/11/2009 13:53

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Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 13:53

I'm not me but of course I am her and her at least some of the time.

Sorry, too much free time on my hands. I will write out 100 times "I must not use a spork on the cat"

Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 13:55

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Got bored by this extended task, can I stop now?

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 10/11/2009 13:56
RealityBites · 10/11/2009 13:56

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whoisasking · 10/11/2009 13:56

I am all of them

And so is my wife

Iamapolytoo · 10/11/2009 13:58

Note to self.

If I'm rude to me is it against the posting rules?

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 10/11/2009 13:59

We're all individuals

( I'm not)

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 14:01

An anker is an anker is an anker, as they say on NM.

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 14:02

Ooh, are you feeling itchy, Bella?

AMumInScotland · 10/11/2009 14:03

Brian: You're ALL individuals!
The Crowd: Yes! We're all individuals!