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Is this a community or not?

138 replies

Goshitsaman · 10/11/2009 10:36

This might turn into a bit of a ramble and a bit of a rant. This is my first posting for a couple of months and my first lengthy spell surfing the site for almost as long. I'm puzzled at the way some of you seem to deal with trolls or perhaps I should say suspected trolls. I read many commercial and non-commercial newsgroups and I cannot think of a single unmoderated group and only one moderated group where trolls don't post. But what I don't see on these other sites is such a tiny sub group so grossly over-reacting to trolls. On Mumsnet the same few people seem to post their suspicions and then "run to teacher" (where teacher = Mumsnet HQ) again and again and again. But if you read other threads on Mumsnet people fairly overwhelmingly express negative views on these "troll hunters" but the hunters just go with their campaigning. Why not just accept the majority view on this matter?

Eg, other posters have explained clearly, calmly and well exactly what the dangers are in the "automatic suspicion about a first posting" reaction. Talk about falling on deaf ears . People might turn to Mumsnet in a moment of crisis only to get savaged by this tiny clique. For clique it is.

If you are not happy about a thread ignore it. The rest of us are big boys and girls well able to make our own decisions on veracity, participation or boycott or whatever. If one genuine poster runs away because of your antics or if one useful thread, even if started by a troll, gets terminated because of your obsession with trolls then the community as a whole is the loser. I find your actions both selfish and unwanted.

Flame proof underwear is now in place

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BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:05

Bramshott, I don't go round shouting down posters with problems generally. Extended is just very obvious though, and kind of insulting my intelligence- I can't seem to help myself when they pop up (repeatedly)...sometimes I just report it without saying a thing though. And do you know what? I have never been wrong about them once. It must really piss them off when their threads go pfffft.

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:08

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SolidGoldBangers · 10/11/2009 12:11

I do sometimes think the trollhunters need to get out more, but then again, it's not that big a deal.

JackBauer · 10/11/2009 12:13

pfffft.

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:14

I don't think I've ever posted in Camping, Go Shit, so you could try there? I imagine that the ol' canvas under the stars setting could be a rich seam to be mined when it comes to intra-familial shenanigans. And it is almost the natural home of the spork- go on, it would suit you down to the ground!

JackBauer · 10/11/2009 12:14

Tha's a great noise Bof, but it hasn't worked

Lets try again, altogether now

Pffft!

YouKnowNothingoftheCrunch · 10/11/2009 12:15

Pffft

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:16

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JackBauer · 10/11/2009 12:18

Damn! Perfect opportunity for my first biscuit and I missed it!

GoShit, start anther thread so I can biscuit you?

Pffffffft

JodieO · 10/11/2009 12:21

He can't be that clever if he has to waste time rebooting to use a new ip address

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:22

Yes, something like "how do other campers have sex without being overheard, because dw and I can hear our nineteen year old dd and her boyfriend, and we don't want to embarrass them because young people should be free to discover each other's bodies..."

Shit, that is so spookily what Extended would write- I am almost worrying myself

ElenorRigby · 10/11/2009 12:22

OP just go your own way, get what you want out of this site or not as the case may be.
I mostly wonder round without a bloody clue about the site politics.
I really dont have the time or energy to waste.
Seriously just do your own thing.

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:23

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BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:31

Ok Reality- here's a challenge for you: what would he write in the pushchair section?

I can see this turning into quite a fun game...

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:34

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BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:37

Oh well done

chicken-keepers?

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 12:37

Why have you called yourself Go Shit?

Did you not read the MNHQ directive on offensive nicknames?

Are you a troll?

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:41

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BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:44

Hahaaaaaaaaaaaa, you are too good

RealityBites · 10/11/2009 12:45

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whoisasking · 10/11/2009 12:50

You two are cheating, you keep picking farmyard subjects.

BellaBonJovi · 10/11/2009 12:50

There was one on Pets just last week.

'DH tells me that the way to teach our 8 week old labradoodle to pee outdoors is to lead by example, and do it myself.

Unfortunately, I have noticed my elderly neighbour watching me at his window while I do this, clearly pleasuring himself at the same time.'

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:51

I am worried that my younger sister may have contracted swine flu from her time in the pig shed having private conversations with our uncle. There will be a hose meeting to decide whether she will be allowed to rest in her nightie, as it does rather provoke some of the older males...

BitOfFun · 10/11/2009 12:52

at Bella- that is so funny!