I've been married 10 months now, I've been with my now dh for years.
We have a beautiful little girl who will be 4 later this year.
We built a house that we poured our heart and souls into and moved in to it two weeks before our wedding last year.
I am 9 weeks pregnant with our second baby. I had a misscarraige in February of this year.
My husband has always had his ways but comes across as extremely content, happy and satisfied with his lot in life.
Although I am aware how ridiculously naive and stupid I sound, I have laughed at women who have said what I am about to but I honestly, honestly never, ever thought he would have this in him..he had his faults but I always thought this was something I never had to worry about.
He went out Thursday night with his friends to celebrate an achievement in work. Apparantly on the way home his friend bumped into a girl he knows on the street and invited her up to his (and his girlfriends)house for karoke etc... (3am), the 4 of them went and spent hours having great fun singing etc.. the couple went to bed, my dh rang a taxi and she rang a taxi and while waiting they ended up kissing.
The b*stard then proceeded to text her all day Friday, all day Saturday, all day Sunday... he went out again Sunday night and she "happened" to be in the pub he went to so the two of them, with two of his friends had a lovely night out together, went dancing, he walked her up to her house "somewhere quite" where they kissed, he felt her fanjo, chest and she had a good feel back too.
Apparantly he didnt actually stick anything inside her as she was having her period.
(I really apologise for being so so crude)
He continued to text her Monday.. complete filth between both of them, this is how I found out, I seen some of the messages and they were all about her pssy and his cck. He had this conversation while I sat on the couch beside him and our daughter played on the floor.
I cannot put in to words how devastated I am. If not for my daughter I just wish I was dead.