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Just caught DH on hedgehog camera. Please help.

270 replies

coppernails · 09/06/2009 21:40

Name changer. Please don?t shout troll and please don?t use this face because I?m devastated and shocked & sickend and I have no idea what to do.

My husband is in our shed. I have just watched him do something to himself with sandpaper. I set up a camera down in the shed today which is from a hedgehog home surveillance thing I?ve been given as a present. I took the camera out of the hedgehog box and have left it on the work bench. I was testing it out (wireless) with our telly eralier. I was just flicking through the channels when the hedgehog camera channel came up and that?s how I saw DH and what he was doing.

We?ve been through a bad time just recently and I know we have a long way to go before things are ok again but I don?t think I can forgive this. I want to be sick. How will I talk to him? What will I say when he comes in? I cant sleep with him tonight. Please help.

OP posts:
atigercametotea · 09/06/2009 21:42

watched him do something to himself with sandpaper?

how very resourceful!

Lilyloo · 09/06/2009 21:43

ouch

Disenchanted3 · 09/06/2009 21:44

3/10

would have been 5/10 if you said he was doing something with the hedgehog.

Molesworth · 09/06/2009 21:44

what lilyloo said

FairMidden · 09/06/2009 21:44

Right now I'm doing that gaping thing fish do when they're taken out of water.

SoWhat · 09/06/2009 21:44

How funny on the day that someone asked who the funniest troll on mn is!

fruitshootsandheaves · 09/06/2009 21:44

maybe he took your request for a bit of rough too literally.

morningpaper · 09/06/2009 21:45
Disenchanted3 · 09/06/2009 21:45

Watch out if he mentions he likes 'smooth fanjos'

morningpaper · 09/06/2009 21:46

Why did you leave the camera on the worktop? Do you suspect the hedgehogs are doing woodwork? Perhaps a little whittling?

Dumbledoresgirl · 09/06/2009 21:46

Oh sorry, not supposed to be using that face. What exactly was he doing with the sandpaper? If a bit of diy, please don't fret. My dh is currently upstairs grouting the bathroom.

Kutner · 09/06/2009 21:46

So are you upset that he was sanding his wood in the shed?

Surely there'd be shaving issues if he were to do it in the house?

Stretch · 09/06/2009 21:47

So, what was he doing with the sandpaper?

cheesesarnie · 09/06/2009 21:47

'What will I say when he comes in? '

ummm-'hows your willy?'

Original poster
coppernails · 09/06/2009 21:47

please don't do this. please don't do this thing where nobody helps. isee this so many times on here. i know it sounds stupid. i remember the mn classics. please don't think this tonight. what am i going to say to him?

OP posts:
Lubyloo · 09/06/2009 21:47

Fruitshoots

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion · 09/06/2009 21:47

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ClaireDeLoon · 09/06/2009 21:48

At least it wasn't shiny metal kitchen implements

Maybe you could give him some soothing balm and at him to let him know you know?

Lilyloo · 09/06/2009 21:48

I wouldn't say anything just give him some sudocrem for the chaffing maybe!

morningpaper · 09/06/2009 21:49

we need to know EXACTLY what you saw

ClaireDeLoon · 09/06/2009 21:50

can you host the vid on youtube?

5inthebed · 09/06/2009 21:50

Ask him if he enjoyed sanding his woody?

morningpaper · 09/06/2009 21:50

and what grade sandpaper are we talking about?

Ronaldinhio · 09/06/2009 21:50

is he having a rough time at the moment?

foxinsocks · 09/06/2009 21:50

ask him if he'd like you to apply the undercoat now