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Have just found out dp has been 'spying' on the woman next door!

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voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:27

with binoculars no less..... I feel sick .
What should I do??

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Libb · 04/05/2005 23:30

show him where to put his lens cap?

tiffini · 04/05/2005 23:30

what has he said. (why)

PuffTheMagicDragon · 04/05/2005 23:31

What's she doing that's so interesting?

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:31

he said it was only the once, and only because she keeps looking out of her house into ours .
Still makes me feel sick tho, what is it with blokes?

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biglips · 04/05/2005 23:32

what?? did you caught him or did he told you?

JoolsToo · 04/05/2005 23:32

were you spying on him?

biglips · 04/05/2005 23:32

sorry i was being a bit slow typing

tiffini · 04/05/2005 23:33

is she attractive?

PuffTheMagicDragon · 04/05/2005 23:33

Dunno, men get very territorial - whay was she nosing at your house?

LGJ · 04/05/2005 23:33

How did you manage to trip him up ??

Did you set a trap

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:33

no I was talking to her today and she asked me to pass on a message to him 'like your binoculars' - I'd laugh if I wasn't so p£ed off.

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voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:34

I'm not a troll, regular poster but really embarassed

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PuffTheMagicDragon · 04/05/2005 23:34

hmmm

lavenderrr · 04/05/2005 23:34

sare you sure he wasn't watching birds in the tree (as my dh does this and has the whole thing set up poiting at what looks like the neighbours)...did you actually see through the binocs yourself?

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:36

Sorry I haven't explained myself very well - I only found out he'd done it because the neighbour made this comment. When i confronted him today he eventually admitted it after lots of arguing.

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Libb · 04/05/2005 23:36

you are kidding right?

LGJ · 04/05/2005 23:36

Fair enough

It's just that it is pub chucking out time.

In all seriousness, hide the binoculars, and feign ignorance when he asks where they are.

On the other hand, she may just be shit stirring.

Libb · 04/05/2005 23:36

sorry Voyeur, that wasn't aimed at you. Lav, bird watching indeed!

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:37

nope not kidding unfortunately

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PuffTheMagicDragon · 04/05/2005 23:37

agree with LGJ

juniperdewdrop · 04/05/2005 23:37

and he's admitted it?

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:38

Is this normal for blokes to do this sort of thing? He's trying to make me think they all do it

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juniperdewdrop · 04/05/2005 23:38

sorry you've said he has admitted it

Any signs of him doing this sort of stuff b4? Is he a bit odd anyway?

voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:38

Yep he's admitted it

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voyeur · 04/05/2005 23:39

No not odd normally, said it was just a one-off. Makes me wonder what else he is hiding

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