dp is a boring git

[nikcola]

he works very very hard i will admit that but this weekend he hasnt had any private jobs on (hes a mechanic) all i want to do is go out and do something all 3 of us but he wont he is a grumpy sod and im really staring to hate him we never never go out its allways left up to me to entertain dd and its not bloody fair all he does is come round here and sit on his arse and watch telly i need some fun im soo bored i feel like im 60 and im 21

nikcola, i was going to say the same thing!! but didnt know if i would get lynched!! your brave lol

i prob will get linched but i was just giving my opinion not everyones so please dont lynch me people

i was thinking of starting a new thread headed 'mixed relationships'...im interesting to know what people think about, what happened to them, how hard it was etc etc...dont want to hijack your thread

i dont think people really lynch...its just the way things are sometimes, muslims practice there religion more than hindu's to an extent

no it would be good to start a thread about it ill be on there for sure

My sister has a different excuse every time I ask her but really I just think he's not that committed

Nikcola - just wanted to hundreth everything that was said on here - you are stunning and I am sure you would meet someone who will treat you right. (Just wait till your a murse and then some hunky doctor will whisk you off your feet!).

im taking a year out to work in care homes so i might have to settle for a pensioner!!!!!

shhhhhhhhhhhhhh u will let out my secret of why i really want to be a nurse

I have always had a thing for men in white coats - I only dated doctors till I meet dp (he is a doctor, but not of the white coat kind )

i have a really bad obsession about soilders

dp is still sulking he came round after wok last night then went home

What has he got to sulk about ? That you were not at his beck and call yesterday ! He could have met you in the park if he really wanted to. Sorry, but he needs to grow up and I'm afraid I for one don't see how that is likely to happen. Any chance he'd come round and entertain dd while you study ?

he is sulking cause i have a go at him all the time (which i admit i do) but he just winds me up so much ,

he rang me at lunch time and this is how the conversation went......

me,, hello
dp,, hello you ok? are you going down town later
me ,, why?
dp,,, cause i need you to get me a garlic press i broke my moms one last nigh and she will kil me

me,, why the f**k should i do anything for her shes a bith

dp,, ok leave it ill get it later

then he hangs up and what do i do i get a bloody garlic press for him from asda

keep the garlic press and use it yourself.

ive told him ive got it now im such a bloody softie , but mind you i did nick £20 off him and buy the dvd for dd with his money

he came round today but has gone agin (had to do someones car apparently) he just informed me that his mom is gonna lend him the rest of the money for the house he wants to buy

if he takes that money they will have a hold over him again and he knows that but i dont no why he has changed his mind last week he said that he would never borrow money off his family cause they would never let him forget it iykwim

he has been acting realy wierd the past week and i want to no why everytime i say anythin to him he just getts pissed off and walks out

im so glad i am going out and getting drunk on sat i might not come home

nik - he's just not got the guts to make the break from his family, and put you and dd above what his family thinks of him

I would be really, really careful - what's happening with his wife coming over? All sounds fishy to me.

I know it can feel like we're all ganging up on you - we're not, it's just that he never seems to do anything nice or generous. He just doesn't treat you properly !

i no your not ganging up on me,

i just ranf him at work to let him know that my friend is having dd for the day and he started shouting that she beeter not feed dd pork ffs all my friends know what dd eats and what she doesnt eeat FFS no im going to study !

Nik, i almost daren't suggest this, but do you think this is the beginning of his wife coming over? They want to get a house prepared for her?

You and me both, lou

i have been thinking the same thing very if its true im going to move away me and dd awway from him and his family

I'd have that suspicion too . Fear that the crunch could be coming far sooner than he's be willing to admit. I may be very cycnical but the timing of his mothers offer seems somewhat coincidental with contact with wife. How much of a deposit has he got saved already - could he move out without family finances, if so why hasn't he done it.

Nickola, having just caught up with this thread I'd just like to say: trust your intuition. Look after yourself and your dd, do what makes you happy. Don't wait for someone (anyone) else to make you happy. Life really is too short. Good luck and best wishes, winniex

nikcola, how are things today?