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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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Tortington · 07/10/2008 17:41

no.

i would shag a woman if i wasn't in a committed relationship - they were rich and owned a strap on

FimboGotAxed · 07/10/2008 17:42

No, never occurred to me.

lou33 · 07/10/2008 17:43

lol custy

mosschops30 · 07/10/2008 17:43

no i dont think youre strange, I think quite a few women would admit to being bi-curious. But lots of them choose not to act on it.
I also think women can find other women attractive, which is something men cant do

Spidermama · 07/10/2008 17:43

Who would wear the strap on? You or her?

I think I'd like to try both actually.

lou33 · 07/10/2008 17:44

woohoo spider!

Tortington · 07/10/2008 18:21

yeah am with you there spider, i would need to be done to - but would love to know how it feels to be doing

iykwim

KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 07/10/2008 18:22

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 18:24

Not to sure about the whole strap on thing! I'd love to feel what it was like to be doing the doing though!

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SlapDashMum · 07/10/2008 18:30

I don't think you are strange. I would like to do it even if just once in my lifetime. Am also married though and DH not sure he could accept me doing it.

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 18:31

what concerns your hubby?

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Liffey · 07/10/2008 18:32

no. I think breasts look lovely but I wouldn't want them touching me. eeeoooo.

KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 07/10/2008 18:33

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 18:33

much better than a pair of hairy balls!
Or a rough face lol

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SlapDashMum · 07/10/2008 18:35

I think he feels it would be adultery but he doesn't actually say that, he just seems uncomfortable when I've talked to him about it.

Shitehawk · 07/10/2008 18:36

I wouldn't have an affair with anyone, male or female, whilst still married to someone else.

If I were single, I might be tempted to try - women's bodies are beautiful and it might be nice to see how it felt to touch another woman (although I wouldn't want to use strap-ons ... you might as well stay with a man if penetration's your bag). More out of curiosity than a deep need to sleep with a woman though, and it's not something I'm going to waste any time regretting not doing.

Shitehawk · 07/10/2008 18:37

It would be adultery.

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 18:40

Most men think all there dreams have come at once! surprized at how many people have thought about it. When i talked to my freinds about it there not curious at all.
hope they didn't think i was coming on to them!! lol

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CharleeInChains · 07/10/2008 18:43

Not something i have ever been wanting to do but i know its not uncommon for women to want to experiment with the same sex.

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Frightattendent · 07/10/2008 19:05

Oh here you all are. Wellllll.

I did it once and it was Ok...

KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 07/10/2008 19:05

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Podrick · 07/10/2008 19:08

tbh if someone had never thought about sleeping with another woman I would think that very conventional and restricted of outlook - most unattractive really

Frightattendent · 07/10/2008 19:10

Ahem, well..

well she was a good friend,

a bit domineering, bit bossy. You know the sort. laughed at me for being naive etc etc.

She had a real w*nker for a partner at the time, who was into swinging, well she was too actually...but she isn't now. (haven't really beenin touch for a while, but she's marrying another woman soon)

we were in one evening and he was out and she'd been asking me to sleep with her since we were 18. So we did.

I didn't feel much, she seemed to though...I was just, experimenting I suppose...felt a bit awkward. I didn't know what to do, well I did but it surprised me...I was quite new to sex in general. Despite being 29

We didn't do it again. But it was interesting. It felt kind of safe, because I trusted her. Not v exciting though in that sense.

scorpio1 · 07/10/2008 19:12

would be up for it yes, have kissed a few women, have always been open with dh though.