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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:02

i'd love to try half hour of friesiaing (is that a word?) as long as it was returned! Not sure about 'doing the doing' as i have a hubby 4 that.
Would want a women for the softer sensual side of things, would be nice not to finish with stubble rash!

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quicky · 08/10/2008 14:04

Think I'd be a boob girl too

God, this isn't a good thread to be on at work!!

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:07

quicky, make sure there's no-one lookiing over your shoulder!!
You might have more offers than you can except!! [wink)

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Umlellala · 08/10/2008 14:09

I really don't 'get' strap-ons. There are plenty of ways to enjoy sex without a big plastic dick getting in the way

(PS Sep, um... you could end up with stubble
rash anyway... )

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quicky · 08/10/2008 14:11

sep - at 6 months pregnant I very much doubt it but you never know

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mou · 08/10/2008 14:13

Fantasize about it but never actually have. Have had the opportunity but I didn't fancy the women. Was asked to be the third in a mArried couples threesome once....secretly wish i'd gone for that..
Why do I wind up admitting to things on Mn I wouldn't dream of saying in RL?.

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PortofinoPumpkin · 08/10/2008 14:14

I quite like the idea as a fantasy thing and watching porn, but never met anyone I would actually want to do it with in RL. A friend of mine once stuck her tongue in my ear and it was yuck.

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GypsyMoth · 08/10/2008 14:17

does it take a full half hour then,for proper,effective "freesiaing"???
if a woman knows what she's doing surely it wouldn't take that long....not for me anyway!!!
i prefer the more athletic type of woman i think....a sporty kind!

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:17

umlellala, you have got all your adventures in this avenue achieved by the sounds of it. I'm sure if there was something you really wanted to try ie hot air balloning etc your hubby would help you fullfill them. The same as my hubby wouldn't stand in the way of my dreams.
The strap on don't do it for me either really but havn't tried so don't know.
your probably right about the rash!!!

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quicky · 08/10/2008 14:18

Yeah have to say that the fantasy is great but not sure if I could go through with it in real life - i'd love to but don't think I'd have the balls. Mind you if she was a complete stunner then you never know

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electra · 08/10/2008 14:19

For me the idea is boring because I don't think there are any women who would thrill me the way a man does, and I am very into penetration so maybe that's why....but as for strap ons - the very idea is just about as sexy as a wet tea towel imho...

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anyfucker · 08/10/2008 14:20

lol at quicky "not having the balls..."

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:21

Quicky, at least they can't get you in any trouble!!! But then if it was a women that would happen either, My turn for the blonde moment!

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LostHorizon · 08/10/2008 14:22

@brie5: doesn't have to go on for the full half hour, but most recipients seem to appreciate the deed more if you don't rush it.

The thrill kinda lingers.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:24

Pumpkin not sure if a wet tongue trust just trust into my ear is my idea of sexy either.

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quicky · 08/10/2008 14:25

not in the ear no but .....

right leaving before I get myself into trouble

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:25

i'm with you lost, longer the better!!!!
No sure if i could last half an hour with a women!!!

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PortofinoPumpkin · 08/10/2008 14:26

Snork! Well maybe if she's tried harder.....

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:30

Don't think i could do a three some, wouldn't want to involve hubby. Wouldn't mind viewers just not joiners!!

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 14:32

So many people have tried it, how did the chance come up for you?
I'm young and pretty and never never had the chance?

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quicky · 08/10/2008 14:35

I'm with you sep (i mean I agree with you not that I'm coming onto you!) - I don't think I'd like hubby to be involved but i wouldn't mind viewers!

I'd never admit to any of this in RL so this is quite good actually!!

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LostHorizon · 08/10/2008 14:36

@ sep

Have you ever tried lighting a fire by rubbing two scouts together?

You know how, if it's getting close to catching alight and you then have to stop for 15 seconds to rest your elbow, it takes about 10 minutes to get back to where you were?

Same thing.

For the recipient, time seems either to fly or to stand still, never sure which.

Eventually I start feeling sorry for the poor woman, and put her out of her misery.

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SlapDashMum · 08/10/2008 14:37

Oh well, I am skinny with small tits . I wouldn't be all that fussy so long as she wasn't skinny enough to look ill or fat enough to be in danger from her health.

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LostHorizon · 08/10/2008 14:39

SDM, what do you mean by fat? To me, a woman's not fat unless, when she sits on my face, I can't hear the hi-fi.

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GypsyMoth · 08/10/2008 14:39

lesbian and gay clubs? they might be a good starting point? maybe

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