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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

443 replies

sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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Overmydeadbody · 08/10/2008 10:22

what's often hard is actually finding a willing female accomplice. They seem to be few and far between...

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quicky · 08/10/2008 10:23

at the pregnant moment - having plenty of them just now and the idea of earrings as testicles made me giggle!!

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 10:25

be careful quicky, I find that if I laugh too much I wet myself!

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 10:26

actually, thinking about it, earrings would be much prettier than testicles! maybe women wouldn't be put off by how ugly they are and think of going with a woman?

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GypsyMoth · 08/10/2008 11:36

i don't know why,but i always seem to attract attention from other women!! which makes me think that maybe i would give it a go......but.....just the sex,not a full relationship! i used to be friends with 2 girls who had been together from school age,and boy,did they argue!!! we all lived together for a while,and i was always at a and e with one of them. fight,fight,fight...thats all they seem to do!!!

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SlapDashMum · 08/10/2008 12:56

What sort of women do you like? What do they have to look like and what sort of image?

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OhYesIWould · 08/10/2008 13:03

test

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OhYesIWould · 08/10/2008 13:05

sorry. wanted to make sure my namechange worked!

I've always been turned on by the thought of having sex with another woman. But being married it'll probably never happen. I had the most amazing dream the other night though...

this thread is making me horny.

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FioFio · 08/10/2008 13:07

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 13:12

and don't snore!

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 13:19

I don't feel that strange now i know more of you feel the same!!!
(off to find myself another bored house wife, hopefully one with big boobs and likes iron!!!)

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choosyfloosy · 08/10/2008 13:19

mosschops i'm sure an awful lot of men sometimes find other men attractive - why wouldn't they?

I have occasionally thought about it but not in a very urgent way - not I hope because I'm narrow-minded (sorry, can't remember exact words you used, previous poster). I am just not very sexually attracted to women - surely if there's a continuum, I'm no more abnormal than people who are.

I like the feel of women's skin and hair, and wish there were a more tactile culture here (would LOVE to live in a harem for a bit) and in fact I don't have any male friends to speak of, but sexually it is men who float my boat.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 13:26

What would everyones ideal lady look like??
I wouldn't like anyone to skinny( make me feel fat!) or too large. Think i'd be a boob person given the chance!

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Umlellala · 08/10/2008 13:39

Portia Rossi (before she got too skinny)
Angelina Jolie
Scarlett Johanssen
Claire Danes

But wouldn't cheat on my husband for anyone - male or female.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 13:43

umlellala, would your husband disaprove?

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lou33 · 08/10/2008 13:45

i snore

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Umlellala · 08/10/2008 13:45

Of what? Me cheating on him? Yes! I think he might be a bit hurt.

He knows who I fancy and pretty much my past sexual history (as I do his)

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charliegal · 08/10/2008 13:46

hmmm I did it, liked it, we're still together 10 years later!

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 13:54

Was you married before this charlie?

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lesbinantryout · 08/10/2008 13:54

Oh god yeah!

DH would love it if I did too!

We always fantasise about a 3 some and the thought of sleeping and kissing and shagging a woman really really does it for me!!

But I never would.

We just talk about it and it does something for us and that is where we leave it.

she would be tallish, natural boobs, not too thin and not too fat.

Bliss!

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Umlellala · 08/10/2008 13:54

(Am assuming there are several lesbian women on Mumsnet who sleep with women quite a lot )

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LostHorizon · 08/10/2008 13:57

To those who've observed that they'd like to find out what it's like to be "doing the doing" (as someone put it upthread - LOL!), and speaking as a bloke, can I just say that that part of it is absolutely terrific.

Doing it with a strappy wouldn't come that close though, because the strapper wouldn't be able to feel what she was doing to the strappee. Then again, it's only like doing it with a johnny, I suppose.

I don't think you can consider yourself the genuine "bicurious female" of internet yore unless you're prepared to go down on another woman for as long as it takes to bring her off.

This is because, while you may love the scent of friesias in the room, you wouldn't necessarily want to plunge face-first into a whole spray of them for half an hour at a time on a regular basis.

Only those who are dyed-in-the-wool, hardcore friesia fans could ever get to enjoy that. If you have to force yourself, you aren't really a friesia fan.

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sep1712 · 08/10/2008 13:57

Umlellala, sorry i mean't, would your husband give you his approval if he knew it was something you really would like to try just once?

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cockles · 08/10/2008 14:00

Not everyone on mumsnet is straight!

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Umlellala · 08/10/2008 14:02

Er... I don't think so, because where would you draw the line? "I have never slept with a celebrity/someone who is Irish/anyone ginger/somone really obese... can I have a go?" I'm sure all those experiences might be interesting but my husband is enough for me now (well, actually we have a newborn and a toddler so it'd be great if we could just shag each other for once )

(and PS I have slept with plenty of women some rubbish and some lovely. Best was actually just a snog in a bar weirdly.)

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