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Has anyone ever though of sleeping with another women?

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 17:39

Am i the only person that would truely admit to thinking about sleeping with another women?
I'm happly married to a great man, that can keep me happy in every way but would love to try a women if only once before i die!
Do you think i'm strange?

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Anifrangapani · 07/10/2008 19:13

I quite fancy it...... can you imagine having sex with someone who knows where the clitoris is?

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KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 07/10/2008 19:13

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Frightattendent · 07/10/2008 19:19

Yes well if you're offering personal tuition...

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KerryMumchingOnEyeballs · 07/10/2008 19:45

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sep1712 · 07/10/2008 21:53

I'm a little upset no-ones offered to help me out with my quest!

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misselizabethbennet · 07/10/2008 22:02

Another closet lesbo here! But better in imagination than reality IME.

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TheMoistWorldOfSeptimusQuench · 07/10/2008 22:25

Yep - thought about it, did it, didn't regret it.

Women are all soft and lovely
(Sorry if that sounds a bit, y'know, fiddly...)

But that said, I am thoroughly hetrosexual these days and probably wouldn't do it again. Sorry sep

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kormAaaarrrggghhhchameleon · 07/10/2008 22:29

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whooosh · 07/10/2008 22:33

I had never really considered it-until Imet DP....15yrs ago and as much as I love men.....

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whooosh · 07/10/2008 23:07

Thread-killer strikes

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Ronaldinhio · 07/10/2008 23:10

I kissed a girl and i think i liked it

really

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AuraofDora · 07/10/2008 23:15

soz sep..been there n done it!
not my thang but was curious (now called bi curious i think)!

kerry..5 years think i would explode!

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Jeepney · 08/10/2008 06:19

I did it once, was very drunk and with my closest friend at the time. She had great boobs. She is now married (to a man) with children.

I would like to try a strap on, because I think you can only really fuck someone if you have a cock, as a woman you always get fucked. I want to be the man! I think I have control freakish tendancies though

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 08:14

Actually, it wouldn't be adultery as that requires penetration between a man and a woman (not a bit of plastic!) It would however be unreasonable behaviour which is another ground for divorce so think before you jump! (or are jumped!)

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lowrib · 08/10/2008 09:07

mumoverseas that's a very strange view - "adultery ... requires penetration between a man and a woman" - so if you or your dh only indulged in a bit of oral sex on the side, that wouldn't be adultery?

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WhirlingStirling · 08/10/2008 09:36

The way I feel at the moment, I cant see me letting another man near, so maybe a woman would be the only option. Quite fancy it actually

A wife, that's what I need. Would she do the cleaning too? That would be a bonus!

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quicky · 08/10/2008 09:46

would love to give it a go just never had the guts to do anything about it. Well that and I don't think DH would be very pleased about it - unless of course he was there

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Overmydeadbody · 08/10/2008 09:50

We don't have the word bisexual for nothing. Lots of women feel this surely, it is not strange.

I think sexuality is on a sliding scale really, with everyone falling somewhere between completely heterosexual and completely homosexual.

Oh, and there's nothing like a great pair of tits!

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fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 08/10/2008 09:58

no...despite my name

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 10:08

lowrib - its not 'a strange view', its the LAW! I was just pointing out that it technically isn't adultery, as someone had said earlier on the thread that it was! I have to admit though, some parts of the law are a bit odd! However, to answer your question, if DH or I indulged in some oral on the side, not it would not be adultery (although it would be unreasonable behaviour and if he did it, I'd be wearing his earings as testicles!)Hope that clarifies the position for you?

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 10:10

obviously I meant I'd be wearing his testicles as earrings!) He doesn't wear earings! (pregnant blonde moment!)

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quicky · 08/10/2008 10:11

mumoverseas -

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mumoverseas · 08/10/2008 10:19

what at me being pregnant and blonde and having the attention span of a gnat? Oh god, no doubt I'll get slagged off now for implying blondes are dippy! watch this space!

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