Disturbing inappropriate text before first date…

[messyhairdontcare25]

Hi everyone

i just wanted to share a disturbing text I’ve received from a guy.

The date was planned for this Friday and I received the below by text out of nowhere…no previous sexual talk, just planning the date. Totally icked out and disturbed. Urgh!

Quick checkin: Are you behaving yourself or do I need to intervene?

I’d be disturbed too. Actually I think most men need to start getting classes on women, there’s too much of this shit going around now- weird texts, dick picks etc

Christ.... You seem to be very easily offended over something so clinical, innocuous and mundane. Do him a favour, don't date him. Poor guy.

Personally I wouldn't reply as he sounds a bit of a perv

He means "are you behaving yourself" which means :are you masturbating" and "do i need to intervene" means "do you want me to talk dirty or send video of himself masturbating or something similar.....hes sent this to you by mistake or hes doing the dirty talk to check hed not getting a duff date friday with no shag

It could be a weird attempt at humour or flirting.

I didn’t read « dom » but what the hell would I know.

I wouldn't have a clue that was a dom thing and I didn't think I'd led a sheltered life

I would think it was really odd and I'd probably look it up. Good thing I'm not planning to date on the Internet.

Clearly this. How are people not getting it? He's saying "I hope you're not being a naughty girl because daddy would have to intervene".

Perfect, but without the “sorry”

I cannot believe some of the posts assuming ‘he sent it to the wrong person’… He is clearly trying to engage OP in ‘naughty’ 🤨 sex talk….. trying to get her to engage in some dom v sub talk - in anticipation of his planned hoped for sex marathon quickie on Friday…

Probably a clumsy attempt at flirting imho

Wow, you have a very vivid imagination! :O Or a dirty mind that reads sex into everything. No, it does not mean anything at all of the sort.

Why is everyone asking what it means? He wants her to reply submissively and tell him
shes been naughty and needs punishing. OP
I’d run if I was you…he most likely has been watching too much porn

It actually does…the previous poster is bang on the money I’m afraid

I guess you don't know how things roll these days as this is exactly what it is @LunaShip

This 100%

It’s actually scary that so many woman don’t see the angle the message is aimed at!

Definitely sexual - Are you being chaste or are you masturbating, in which case I'll come round and have sex with you.

Not RTFT but appears to me he was hoping you'd shoot back with something flirty to ease his transition in to a first date shag. Definitely testing how 'game' you are.

This is absolutely the vibe of the message.

Let me have his number as I need him to intervene...

Because it doesn't make any sense as a sentence on its own?

Yes he is being weird and pervy

But it does. He’s being sexual and wants her to say she’s been naughty! What rock are you all living under?

I hope you all woman who are confused by this man’s text don’t have kids…we need to teach our sons and daughters

You don’t even have to read it as sexual - him intervening in ANY way / sense is him trying to take over in whatever the OP’s supposedly doing. It’s coercive.
No way should any woman be starting anything on this basis.