If you want the honest answer, I had a few family issues when I got married, not with my wife, but things were complicated, and I didn't quite understand what was going on. Google led me here; been here a while now, and have learnt a lot, although from my recent posts, I am sure many will think I've learnt nothing, lol.
Sometimes I just try to give a hint of the sometimes complicated world of male-to-male friendships and relationships, for example, people calling for the OP to let all the wives know on the rugby thread, I've seen the fallout from that. It intrigues me that everyone hates male violence until they don't.
In the early years, I had been on many threads where I've had to retire my username after it became toxic. Now I have a nice one for all the non-controversial stuff like cooking, holidays and gifting. I like it here and find some of the posts really interesting ( what happy things make you cry) that highlight the massive difference between the sexes, which is great. Led me to read "Hidden Women", which was an absolute eye-opener, one for the info, two for how totally uninterested my mates were in what I'd read, Dads, husbands, grandads, brothers and colleagues
I also go on lads' holidays while my wife checks how many of the clean undies I've taken have some back worn. Men are grim. I am sure someone, Nigel, only takes box-fresh pants, but sometimes it's the Nigel's that have been let loose that are the liability lol.
Oh, can go pretty much anywhere apart from Butlins lol She probably wouldn't be too happy with Phuket but I wouldn't go there on a lads holiday anyway.