I mostly agree with Meemar. Tempting as it is, the OP's spelling and grammar has no bearing on the argument and shouldn't be brought into it...although they may be relevant when discussing her possible future career prospects I suppose.
I do, however, firmly agree that people should not be expecting a council house so they can more easily have children when they cannot live independently with one child.
Hayley's dp works, which is great. Hayley...can't we convince you that your lives would be much fuller if you waited, worked and saved (and studied if possible) and concentrated on the beautiful child you have, before expanding your family? Whether you believe it or not, on the figures you have quoted you are unlikely to be able to survive with real difficulty on your own, and so may need support from your parents...and it these handouts that they will understandably get hacked off with.
My brother and sister in law are in your position (only worse, because they now have a insolvency agreement and so ANY spare cash they get must go into that) and the family feels duty bound to support them, but FURIOUS at their decision to have another child when they cannot support the one they have on my BIL's wage of £14k, plus tax credits etc. We don't want to see the children suffer, so will chip in....but yes, we do judge them and see them as immature and unable to control their impulses. My MIL, who has worked hard to raise 4 kids should not be having to hand over cash to raise her grandchildren as well...its not fair!