Partner going on stag do, help I can’t cope!!

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Please help, my partner of 2 years is going on a stag do, one were it’s going to a Spain to the usual strips, bars possible strip clubs etc
we are 44 I think it’s unacceptable to go on that kind of a stag do, I’m so insecure about what could happen and I’m being told my standards are too high.
I”m not sure if I want to be with a man who thinks this kind of stag do holiday is deemed acceptable.
does anyone at all have the same opinion? Or does everyone think I’m too much?

If it upsets her, it upsets her. Any man worth his salt would not want to upset his partner. I wouldn't call it normal either.

Yeah but you can’t live your life round your partners issues. Don’t get me wrong he shouldn’t flirt in front of her or at all,or give her drink to random women, but still the price of not able to go in stag dos with his mate due to thay is too high.