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Could you forgive your partner / spouse if they called you

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sunshineandroses25 · 19/06/2025 15:57

A fat cunt.. during an argument?

I’ve been dating a man for 3 months, not exclusive yet but very strong feelings and we were definitely heading in that direction. We had a bit of a tiff last night, things got heated and he called me a fat cunt and blocked me.

He messaged me today and apologised profusely, said he didn’t mean it.

I’m not sure if I can get past it though. He knows I’m insecure about my weight, we’ve talked about it a few times. I’ve dated men in the past who treated me like shit and always put me down because of my weight. He knows all of this. I just feel like it was such a low blow and I would never comment on his looks (he has insecurities too). It’s also made me think is that what he really thinks of me…

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DreamyHazelFawn · 24/06/2025 23:07

They always apologise saying that won’t happen again BUT it will happen. And they will have all sorts of excuses everytime it happens. You deserve better, even alone is better than being with someone toxic next to you.

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