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Dating new guy - surprise pregnancy

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Gnomie93 · 12/03/2025 11:45

I've recently started seeing this guy and he’s wonderful, and we both like each other very much but it still early days.

This morning he calls me, he’s very upset, and tells me that he has just found out a previous one night stand he had prior to us dating is now pregnant. He makes it clear he doesn't want to lose me but also understands if I make a run for it.

He doesn't know if the woman will keep the baby, she’s in her very early twenties and from what I gather they don't have any feelings for each other. What makes it worse - it is his housemate. (She is now moving out)

Im stuck on whether I should continue dating him? I know that this situation is so messy and I feel bad for them both and I don't want to sway any decision that is made but I do like him and that's very hard to find now days.

OP posts:
Horses7 · 14/03/2025 19:20

Ps and the girl has to move out of her home - a real supportive Daddy to be??

Familysquabbles23 · 16/03/2025 14:39

lnks · 12/03/2025 12:34

It sounds like he’s actually got a live in girlfriend and he’s lying to you.

Hrft but sounds like this to me too

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