My boyfriend said my vagina scares him ??

[Meeemeee88]

I feel really upset over this and it’s stupid I know . But basically I’ve had three babies ( including one with said partner ) I’ve suffered from terrible self confidence issues regarding my lady part ( have a slight prolapse and obviously it’s changed a lot since births etc like no matter how much I do pelvic floors it makes no difference) so I feel like it’s horrible and there’s not much I can do about it , HE KNOWS all this . Anyway while I was in hospital last week my partner out of nowhere just said “ my vagina scares him !??” What the hell does that mean ? He wouldn’t elaborate just said it’s MEATY !?? Wtf . I’m now really annoyed to the point I don’t even want him to touch me now . AIBU ???

"ex"
Good.

The thing that most confuses me about them, is that they always seem to be able to get someone else, which confuses me if they are despicable. After my ex's comment to me I honestly thought everyone did have perfect vaginas! This is an eye opener for me!

So are you dating Jay from The Inbetweeners?

Me too {Vagina dentata myth} silly man.

splutter 😂😂

You win the internet for today! 😂

Lucky. Very easy to get rid of him as a partner then. Difficult to be in a relationship with someone who is scared of your body parts and finds you disgusting.

Can't see him being able to get past that and it wont do your confidence and self-esteem any good to stay with him.

I thought vagina dentata too. Wonder if he's seen this film? https://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/teeth

I worry sometimes. My husband tells me that he can’t tell any difference between now and when we didn’t have children, that I have absolutely nothing to worry about and he loves having sex with me.
I’m sure the first point is absolute bollocks, but I appreciate him sparing my feelings and reassuring me.
Find someone mature and decent op. There are plenty of self aware men out there, who aren’t just cruel.

Gross. Bet his penis looks like a mouldy hotdog.

Omg that made me spit my coffee out 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Yes!

He sounds grim OP I would tell him that his personality is digesting.

Do you need this misogynistic immature little twerp in your bed? house? Life?
I hope not.
If man said anything like that to me, he would be messaged to collect his packed bags.
Nasty and beyond unacceptable.

Exactly, I agree, and most people say it doesn't change much at all, no more than it would just getting older without dcs. Even if it has a little, what a complete horrible comment. He obviously hasn't seen a vagina before!

Tell him he is, in fact, the epitome of a horrible c*

Wow what a loser. You have birthed your children together and he has the audacity to say this. Show him these responses and see what he thinks.

Tell him his willy would be scary if it wasn't so laughable.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Yes, he hasn't given birth, so what is his excuse on the appearance of his penis, he needs to grow some balls for starters.

Billy Connolly talked about men's tackle looking like something you'd usually see hanging out the side of a shark's mouth. Aside from that, what a horrible, immature thing to say. What's it like having four children, OP?

Ask him to push 3 babies out of his arsehole and see what that looks like after. I like the pointing and laughing at his pecker too!

@Meeemeee88 get him one of those silicon vagina sex toys delivered to him with a delivery message “As my vagina has now slammed shut and entry to you is barred, I thought you might need this.”

You really should leave him OP. Insulting a woman's genitals is a sign of very serious misogyny. He has used revolting language to shame you for what is uniquely female about you.

I have not birthed children and I have a “ meaty “ vagina. I think it’s bloody gorgeous.

Any one that could be that cruel to you does not need access you.

Were you living together before? I think he needs to stay somewhere else permanently.

That comment is such a hurtful one I have to question if he said it deliberately to make you feel crap about yourself. Perhaps he is insecure himself.

Is it possible he is scared of hurting you since you have got a prolapse?