Cheating help - do I tell her again?

[Mamaofone20232023]

So I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months, we talk everyday, see eachother sporadically and he’s told me he’s single, turns out, I don’t think he is?
my friend messaged his girlfriend on Facebook ( profile picture with them together) and said I think your boyfriends cheating, she then deleted her Facebook.

He still swears he’s single and that it’s over between them two but they’re still living together.. he’s still seeing me on a regular basis, we message everyday but his texts die down after work and on weekends - I believe they’re still together, do I let her know again that he’s still cheating?

If you think he’s a lying cheat, why would you want to keep seeing him? Have some self respect.

Why are you still seeing him if you don't believe he is single?

Because I’m head over heels, he love bombed me when I was at my lowest and has supported me through all of that. I asked him if they weren’t together and he said they are not I just have this feeling they are, hence why I asked should I speak to her? Ask her myself?

Why bother? are you hoping she will leave him, and then you can have him? Just walk away

You're head over heels with someone you know is a cheater? How do you see that panning out...?

He’ll do to you what he’s doing to her. You’ll never be able to trust him

You're head over heels with a probable cheater?

Good luck with that. His poor girlfriend.

He’s told me he is single, I just have that niggly feeling inside that tells me maybe he isn’t. Maybe I’m paranoid? I’ve asked him directly and he’s said they are not together but he still vanishes in an evening and weekend so that’s why I’m asking, do I ask her or do I just leave it

You leave him!

Thanks? He said it’s not his girlfriend hence why I’m getting opinions on shall I ask her myself?

And you don't believe him.

Why are you "head over heels" with someone you think is a liar and a cheat?
Surely you so deserve better.

Because like I said earlier he was there for me when nobody was, I had a small baby and he’s supported me through his first year of his life. It’s hard to just ‘get rid’ of someone who you had hopes for regardless of current situations.

He still swears he’s single and that it’s over between them two but they’re still living together...
his texts die down after work and on weekends...

He isn't single.

What crap way to start a relationship. You shouldn't be wondering about stuff like this. Listen to your gut and walk away. I see a lot of heartache if you continue with this guy

He's cheating and you're his bit on the side. Get away from him; there's no future here that doesn't end in heartbreak.

You think he might be cheating on his gf with you but until you have proof from her you’ll carry on shagging him - great plan, nothing can possibly go wrong there

Right. You aren't going to listen to anyone so this is pointless. There are red flags all over this.

And you've let someone you've only known a few months help raise your child?

But does the girl he’s living with get told again that he’s still seeing someone else or does she get left in that life? She deleted her Facebook the first time round, does she get told a second time round and then more fool her?

I never said that, I said he has supported me through the first year of his life. He has never met my son, my son is always in bed when he comes round but he has been MY support

Ffs guys, She has clearly said SHE'S NOT SURE.
When she is sure, she can dump his ass!

He's cheating on you, actually. Stringing you along as his bit on the side.

Move on, do whatever you need to do to build your self esteem for next time.

@Mamaofone20232023

Yes, ask her.

Support that vanishes on evenings and weekends?

Seriously, raise the bar. Don't settle for someone like this.

And did that "support" include shagging you? He's a nasty piece of work. As for telling his partner again, why? She knows he cheats and has decided to stay with him.