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Who is likely the father ?

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Coolbabygirl2 · 10/12/2024 02:32

Hi everyone

This is a no judgement zone and I’d just like everyone’s thoughts as I am unsure and just extremely anxious and it’s causing me stress.

On January 13th 2024 I had a period that lasted until the 16th January.

On my period tracker app, it states that my ovulation date was 24th but changed to 25th (or the other way around). My fertile days were 21st Jan until the 27th Jan 2024. During this time I did an ovulation test on the 24th and 25th Jan but I still ended up having unprotected sex and ended up pregnant.

Mr A - we had unprotected intercourse and he ejaculated inside me on the 1st of Jan, 9th of Jan, 17th of Jan and 23rd of Jan at around 9/10pm.

Mr B - we had unprotected sex on the 19th of Jan and 29th of Jan but he didn’t ejacutlate inside me on the 19th of Jan.

My baby was born on 12 October 2024 due to being induced early. My EDD was 19th Jan due to period calculations and my final EDD from my first scan was the 16th of oct.

I do see a lot of similarities in the baby to Mr A and so do my friends and family.

Mr B, not at all, but I’d still just like to have a peace of mind.

me and Mr A were a thing but used to mess up so we’d make up and break up a lot in a small space of time. However, then he suddenly switched on me whereas mr B it was just a fling here and there whom I only slept with twice.

I know I am stupid for this, I feel it, but I just want to know everyone’s thoughts.

thank you

OP posts:
Thunderpants88 · 11/12/2024 03:46

Coolbabygirl2 · 10/12/2024 03:36

Hello, I will be doing one in my own time meaning In the next few weeks. I am currently going through a lot right now and just need to get my head straight. I do wish for whomever the father is to have a bond hence why I am not leaving this too long.

You have already left it too long!

Candy24 · 11/12/2024 04:00

Honestly Mr A would have no respect for you as you have none for yourself. Honestly please don't have unprotected sex with people unless you are in a committed relationship which sounds like you aren't

Nanny0gg · 12/12/2024 09:42

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/12/2024 20:30

I'm not judging you. I am judging whoever taught you sex ed at school, as they clearly are not fit for the job if you left school thinking you could rely on ovulation tests and pulling out for contraception.

Ovulation tracking is unreliable even when the woman is using daily body temperature measurements and cervical mucus assessments together. Ovulation tests alone won't even come close to protecting you. Sperm can live in your body for up to five days so if you ovulate a couple of days after sex, you are at risk of pregnancy. That's why women who track ovulation take their temperature and check their mucus daily: to get the advance warning from temperature and mucus changes.

Teachers can teach

They CANNOT make the student take in what is said if the student isn't listening or thinks they know better

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