Page 19 | A woman made a pass at DH - Need help writing a text

GirlInterrupted · 2024-12-08T08:44:54+00:00

I want to send a beautifully written text to the woman who touched and proposed a BJ to my DH last night. I want to say wtaf, stay away from any social gatherings we will be at and leave the WhatsApp group. Hit me with your best ones please

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:31

WearyAuldWumman · 09/12/2024 22:20

I stayed at the old QM Hall in Bellshaugh Avenue for a couple of years. You're quite right: all the real slappers came from Bearsden or Milngavie!😂

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😂😂😂 fur coat nae knickers right enough

WearyAuldWumman · 09/12/2024 22:31

DearDenimEagle · 09/12/2024 22:24

Nah..she’s ragin’ , to put it politely. I don’t blame her. If she’s in Glasgow, the other tart is lucky she didn’t get a slap into next week🤣 As my OH used to say, “ there’d be twa hits in it…me hittin’ her and her hittin’ the floor”

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Sounds like there's a Francie and Josie sketch in there. (Apologies - you'll be too young to remember them.)

NonPlayerCharacter · 09/12/2024 22:33

Jazzjazzjazz · 09/12/2024 22:17

You do you, loads of us would 100% put the stupid bitch in her place, because the audacity of trying it on with someone else’s husband is the utmost disrespect.

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It's a shame you can't trust your husband, but finding a better relationship would be a better life choice than getting a criminal record to satisfy your hubris.

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:34

@GirlInterrupted I think you need to organise another meet and invite us unhinged Glaswegians/Scots along. We'll help you take care of your little problem 😉

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GirlInterrupted · 09/12/2024 22:36

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 09/12/2024 22:11

You sound unhinged because you said you can’t be held responsible for your actions and are threatening physical violence.

I love my husband. I wouldn’t threaten to fight someone if they offered him a blow job. I trust him and would just…laugh? Walk away? Remain secure in my relationship? I dunno really. The level of proposed physical and verbal aggression in your post is not normal in my world. And for that I am glad!

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I'm glad you're glad, petal.

I trust my husband, but I also stand by him.

I hope nothing bad happens to your poor husband, as you dunno what you would do, now that sounds unhinged!

Get off your high horse, and move along honey, this is the real world.

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Kibble29 · 09/12/2024 22:36

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:30

😂😂😂

She's lucky she never got ragdolled up and down Sauchiehall street.

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🤣🤣 Agree.

Wee midden that she is.

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:38

WearyAuldWumman · 09/12/2024 22:31

Sounds like there's a Francie and Josie sketch in there. (Apologies - you'll be too young to remember them.)

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Are ye dancing?
Are ye asking?
Aye, I'm asking
Then I'm dancing

😂

NonPlayerCharacter · 09/12/2024 22:39

GirlInterrupted · 09/12/2024 21:31

Actually, I am Irish and living in Glasgow!

So, for context. This slapper woman is not my friend, it was the first time we met her. She is a friend of a friend.

We have a WhatsApp group where we arrange meets and anyone is welcome to join the events. There are single men in the group that she shows no interest in. So it must be something to do with trying to seduce a married man.

My husband told me this happened as we were about to go (the Uber was already outside). He said he was really uncomfortable with her and do not want to go to any more events if she is there. I blew my fucking top and wanted to go and bate the shit out of her, but he asked me if we could just go, so we left. It took all of my effort to leave with him. And, yes, there was drink involved.

We were leaving in a group to go to another friend's house, so they were all aware of what has just happened. Anybody that knows my husband knows that he would never have done anything to encourage this type of behaviour. And that he is telling the truth.

As for the ones saying I am not his mommy. No, I m not, I am much more than that. I am his wife, the mother of his children, his best friend, his life partner and his lover, our lives are intertwined, you fuck with him, you fuck with me.

I feel sad for the partners of the people on here that are not willing to fight for what they have built for years. Knowing that your partner doesn't have your back must feel really shit. It's just, there you go, you're a big boy, sort your shit out, really?

It is not about saying, hands off, he's mine. Its about saying; Back off bitch, you are fucking with the wrong people we stand by each other.

And yes, I sent her a private whatsapp (still unread) . Took me hours to come up with the right words, but told her that she is embarrassing herself and others, and she should have some dignity and self respect. I also said that we don't want to be around her again.

And yes again, it did make me feel better to send the message. I don't care what I "look" like to her, but If I do see her again, I am not sure I can be held responsible for my actions. So I thought it best to warn her before...

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Anybody that knows my husband knows that he would never have done anything to encourage this type of behaviour. And that he is telling the truth.

So... what more needed to be done? Why the stuff about "I feel sad for the partners of the people on here that are not willing to fight for what they have built for years"? You didn't need to fight for anything, that's the point. Your husband rebuffed her, as he should. He literally removed any need for a fight for anything by not allowing anything to happen.

Angelchick1971 · 09/12/2024 22:41

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Kibble29 · 09/12/2024 22:42

OP I live in Glasgow too, and I think a good number of the women in our city would’ve leathered this bird by now.

So well done on showing restraint. 😆

WearyAuldWumman · 09/12/2024 22:45

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:38

Are ye dancing?
Are ye asking?
Aye, I'm asking
Then I'm dancing

😂

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😂

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:45

@NonPlayerCharacter it's the disrespect this woman has shown, not just to OP but other women in the group too. She needs to be told it's not on and she's not welcome any more as she's making people uncomfortable. OPs husband wouldn't want to be the one to confront her so OP is doing it.

And we're having a laugh about the violence. It's just our weird sense of humour.

WearyAuldWumman · 09/12/2024 22:50

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:45

@NonPlayerCharacter it's the disrespect this woman has shown, not just to OP but other women in the group too. She needs to be told it's not on and she's not welcome any more as she's making people uncomfortable. OPs husband wouldn't want to be the one to confront her so OP is doing it.

And we're having a laugh about the violence. It's just our weird sense of humour.

Some folk just won't get it.

By the way, is this the point where I should confess to having accidentally lived in a brothel off Byres Road?

We wondered about the cupboard full of size 16 skirts and Jackie magazines...and the strange men at the door.

Finally, one of my lecturers heard me talking about my new bedsit. "Where?!"
"Southparks Avenue..."
"Which number...?"

I told him. Turned out that his pal had the flat opposite and the polis had set up a camera opposite... That must have been why the landlord switched to renting out to students and rigging the gas meters.

NonPlayerCharacter · 09/12/2024 22:53

Fannyfiggs · 09/12/2024 22:45

@NonPlayerCharacter it's the disrespect this woman has shown, not just to OP but other women in the group too. She needs to be told it's not on and she's not welcome any more as she's making people uncomfortable. OPs husband wouldn't want to be the one to confront her so OP is doing it.

And we're having a laugh about the violence. It's just our weird sense of humour.

He seems quite capable of handling himself, tbh. Whole thing just reads like hubris to me. I don't feel sorry for this woman or anything, but after she's been rebuffed I don't see why there's all this stuff about "I fight for what we've built and stand by him" etc. That's clearly not the reason since the whole point is that no fight was needed and he doesn't need any help to tell women who proposition him to fuck off.

I'm wondering if she's had success with other men in the group; seems weird she's still hanging around after two of them fucked her off but apparently none of them are capable of telling her to go away? Only the women can?

Oh well. I'm sleepy.

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Exactly. “Fuck your marriage and the life you’ve built, I’m going to try my luck anyway”.

People will tell you violence is never the answer but if I was the OP, I’d want to do it.

HollyKnight · 09/12/2024 23:08

But threatening violence doesn't show that you are standing by your man. It just looks like you think she actually is a threat and that is why you are warning her off.

2Sensitive · 10/12/2024 00:42

To be careful in case you get a text back saying, what do you mean, he didn't refuse.

Jazzjazzjazz · 10/12/2024 00:42

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 09/12/2024 22:21

Gosh well, enjoy prison.

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You don’t go to prison for sending a text, why are there so many stupid people on this thread

Jazzjazzjazz · 10/12/2024 00:47

NonPlayerCharacter · 09/12/2024 22:53

He seems quite capable of handling himself, tbh. Whole thing just reads like hubris to me. I don't feel sorry for this woman or anything, but after she's been rebuffed I don't see why there's all this stuff about "I fight for what we've built and stand by him" etc. That's clearly not the reason since the whole point is that no fight was needed and he doesn't need any help to tell women who proposition him to fuck off.

I'm wondering if she's had success with other men in the group; seems weird she's still hanging around after two of them fucked her off but apparently none of them are capable of telling her to go away? Only the women can?

Oh well. I'm sleepy.

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Because some people are eternal slappers who have a massively inflated sense of self, despite constant rejection, and they are hoping at some point some low value man will bite? Desperation? Decent single men not interested in her so she’ll go for the shags where she can? An alcohol problem and no boundaries? Self sabotage? The only kind of behaviour she knows? A specific kink where she can only get off on shagging someone else’s man? I don’t know, you’d have to ask her, but we’ve all met these types

loropianalover · 10/12/2024 00:50

OP I beg you update us if she ever answers 🤣

DearDenimEagle · 10/12/2024 00:59

👍🤣

Mmhmmn · 10/12/2024 01:03

OutbackQueen · 08/12/2024 08:47

Why do you need to message her? If anyone needs to say anything it needs to be your husband. What did he do at the time?

This. You’re not 15.

saraclara · 10/12/2024 01:09

Good grief. I'm amazed at the number of people who'd choose to turn this into an episode of EastEnders.

Jazzjazzjazz · 10/12/2024 01:09

nonsense. It’s not a “her husband and the other woman thing”, one of them texting her is the same as the other texting her, which is precisely the point. They are a couple, a team, and she should already have known that before she made a pass at him. Women like that love to create a “me and him” thing, the wife texting nips that straight in the bud. It’s not about the trustworthiness of the husband, it is about the place the wife has in the husbands life, the disrespect shown, and the asserting of boundaries and team dynamic to put a full end to potential future reoccurrences. It also bursts the bubble this other woman wants to create of some form of intimacy with the husband. It kills it dead and asserts that the husband truly isn’t interested in her, tells his wife everything, and that they come as a package. Women like that are the type to go in for another round, or even lie to the wife that something happened, they are dangerous and disgusting and the wife texting will show her that her game is over