A woman made a pass at DH - Need help writing a text

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I want to send a beautifully written text to the woman who touched and proposed a BJ to my DH last night. I want to say wtaf, stay away from any social gatherings we will be at and leave the WhatsApp group.

Hit me with your best ones please

The whole gang be texting her 🤣 wouldn't be able to be seen in the county 🤣

I don't have 'low standards'. he would have been able to stick up for himself without having me hold his coat, metaphorically speaking, he was a grown adult with high standards. You seem to be one of the MN female controllers, my way or the highway in everything.

She’d be ran out of the place the dirty skanger, the shit kicked out of her. No place for her type round here. 😁

It's not all about a husband sticking up for himself.
He has, he sorted it out, he wasn't interested...so that's sorted.

What it leaves now is a woman who is prepared to wreck her 'friends' marriage.
If that's not disrespectful to the wife, I don't know what is.

Me 🤣

Sorry wrong reply, I was replying to yes I’m Irish

But he’s not “sticking up for himself”, is he? It’s their marriage- yes in marriage he is HER sexual partner, and this woman has trod all over the boundaries. This is the message she gives out by trying it on with the husband of a woman she socialises with:

she’s thinks this woman’s husband is easy and would be enamoured with her
she thinks she’s better than the wife, sexier and he won’t be able to resist
she’s laughing at the wife
she’s trying to create a bond with the husband even if it’s a negative one- so it’s like there’s a thing between them
she’s either assuming he won’t tell his wife, or she doesn’t give a fuck if he does
she’s potentially causing marital problems and arguments if there is any insecurity in the relationship
she’s getting a kick out of the idea of shagging someone husband and then socialising with her
she is disrespecting the wife big time
she is disrespecting their marriage, their love, and their bond
she’s thinks she’s so damn fine that he’d think she’s so hard to resist while his wife is beneath her

she bloody deserves to be thoroughly humiliated in front of the entire group, never mind a text!

what planet are you on

Not Irish but Scottish from Glasgow and yeah as I’ve said upthread I find it bizarre the idea that you wouldn’t confront your friend about it 😭😂 I certainly would.

Fuck that, if knock her out

You don't need to police DP as has been suggested this was disrespectful to you too.

WhatsApp message group:

I can't believe the state of you to offer DP a BJ. Obvs he refused, there's scraping the bottom of the barrel and then there's you. Get some sort of respect if not for yourself then those you associate with. It's well known you have form for these sort of hideous, uncalled for, unwarranted and unappreciated advances. You're an embarrassment and I for one will have nothing further to do with you. Get some therapy, you clearly need it.

I would find it a lot more satisfying to say all that face to face, but I guess we are all different.
What I don't understand is why so many seem to think it has nothing to do with the wife, it most certainly does.

I’d text saying, “I know you’re a bit slow, but did it ever occur to you that my husband is married to ME, so why would he look twice at someone like YOU. A lot of men who are single and desperate would shag anything going, but it doesn’t mean it would be their first pick. My hubby has his first pic, and we were laughing yesterday about how much you must think of yourself to even approach him. I’m assuming along with your inflated view of yourself, you believed he wouldn’t tell me about what you said? Not only has he told me, but he was physically disgusted by the very idea of it. We know that you’ve got form for trying it on with other womens husbands and being rejected, and we both think you likely need psychiatric help to work on boundaries. I suggest you stay away from the group from now on, and leave the WhatsApp, as we’ve been left with no choice but to warn others about your predatory behaviour. Take care

Regardless of texting her or not I would no longer consider her a friend.
I couldn't possibly do that to a friend I cared about.
Sorry op but she doesn't care about you.
You don't need to know people like that, no one does. Invest your time in one of the other millions of people out there.

Actually, I am Irish and living in Glasgow!

So, for context. This slapper woman is not my friend, it was the first time we met her. She is a friend of a friend.

We have a WhatsApp group where we arrange meets and anyone is welcome to join the events. There are single men in the group that she shows no interest in. So it must be something to do with trying to seduce a married man.

My husband told me this happened as we were about to go (the Uber was already outside). He said he was really uncomfortable with her and do not want to go to any more events if she is there. I blew my fucking top and wanted to go and bate the shit out of her, but he asked me if we could just go, so we left. It took all of my effort to leave with him. And, yes, there was drink involved.

We were leaving in a group to go to another friend's house, so they were all aware of what has just happened. Anybody that knows my husband knows that he would never have done anything to encourage this type of behaviour. And that he is telling the truth.

As for the ones saying I am not his mommy. No, I m not, I am much more than that. I am his wife, the mother of his children, his best friend, his life partner and his lover, our lives are intertwined, you fuck with him, you fuck with me.

I feel sad for the partners of the people on here that are not willing to fight for what they have built for years. Knowing that your partner doesn't have your back must feel really shit. It's just, there you go, you're a big boy, sort your shit out, really?

It is not about saying, hands off, he's mine. Its about saying; Back off bitch, you are fucking with the wrong people we stand by each other.

And yes, I sent her a private whatsapp (still unread) . Took me hours to come up with the right words, but told her that she is embarrassing herself and others, and she should have some dignity and self respect. I also said that we don't want to be around her again.

And yes again, it did make me feel better to send the message. I don't care what I "look" like to her, but If I do see her again, I am not sure I can be held responsible for my actions. So I thought it best to warn her before...

You sound a bit unhinged OP. I hope you are doing ok

Why do i sound unhinged, because our opinions differ?

I'm hoping that the culprit's a resident of Kelvinside, so that the immortal "aa fur coat..." line can be used when appropriate.

You sound unhinged because you said you can’t be held responsible for your actions and are threatening physical violence.

I love my husband. I wouldn’t threaten to fight someone if they offered him a blow job. I trust him and would just…laugh? Walk away? Remain secure in my relationship? I dunno really. The level of proposed physical and verbal aggression in your post is not normal in my world. And for that I am glad!

No she does not, idiot

You do you, loads of us would 100% put the stupid bitch in her place, because the audacity of trying it on with someone else’s husband is the utmost disrespect.

I used to live in North Kelvinside and I'll have you know my knickers were firmly on whilst wearing my furs 😂😂😉

I stayed at the old QM Hall in Bellshaugh Avenue for a couple of years. You're quite right: all the real slappers came from Bearsden or Milngavie!😂

Gosh well, enjoy prison.

Nah..she’s ragin’ , to put it politely. I don’t blame her. If she’s in Glasgow, the other tart is lucky she didn’t get a slap into next week🤣 As my OH used to say, “ there’d be twa hits in it…me hittin’ her and her hittin’ the floor”

😂😂😂

She's lucky she never got ragdolled up and down Sauchiehall street.