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Baffled by sudden ghosting

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Forfucksake84 · 24/11/2024 08:38

I went on a second date last week with a guy I've been chatting to for 3 months. The last date was actually 3 months ago but I wasn't sure If I liked him after the first one. I kept meaning to meet up with him again but then things kept coming up on both our ends. He was 2 hours late turning up last week but other than that the date went well and I found I was surprisingly attracted to him this time. I invited him back for a cup of tea after a few drinks and we had a bit of a gropey kiss before we left and he asked when I was next free so I said this weekend. He's been chatting normally all this week. On Thursday he sent me a dick pic, saying I think you would have done a lot more than copped a feel if I'd stayed much longer. I replied saying that I was turned on but that I don't usually go all the way on a second date, and that as long as he didn't think I'd invited him back for that reason. He said absolutely not at all, he'd never assume that, but that he'd just got carried away. I texted him on Friday night saying 'it's OK I'll let you off lol. How was your day?' and he just hasn't replied or opened the message. No mention of the date we pencilled in or anything. He's been consistent with communication for the last 3 months! Any thoughts? I'm so baffled and so sick of this flakey confusing behaviour from men. It just makes my head spin

OP posts:
BlastedPimples · 21/01/2025 19:38

Forfucksake84 · 20/01/2025 18:33

As I say, I wouldn't want to see him again anyway. It's more just a blow to my self esteem. He said some pretty disgusting things while he was here. Said he was on some medication that had made him really constipated and that he'd physically had to pull the poo out himself. He also said that he had to have a shower before he left (he was late again) because he had a nervous poo and has ocd so has to shower after every shit. Then we were talking about driving and he said he'd once hit a deer and I said that was a bit sad, and he said well it shouldn't have got in my way then!
Finally he said he'd had 3 serious crashes in his life and seemed to think that was pretty good going.

Jesus wept. 🤮

Seriously messed up and creepy and idiotic man.

I hope you never encounter him ever again.

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