Walked in on my husband mastubating

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I've been married a few times, but my husband (current and only one I have children with) is the only time I've actually really enjoyed sex. There's alot I could complain about in my relationship but the sex is wonderful. I don't orgasm through direct sex but he can do easily other ways, and I'm happy with that.

He's not. I don't orgasm the way he wants so he's withdrawn pretty much all sex so I'm very fucking depressed.

I walked in on him mastubating yesterday,
exactly what do I do with this?

There’s something missing here, is there anymore you can tell us, I mean in terms of what your relationship is like, are you affectionate together, is he loving and friendly with you in day to day life and how did this sex strike come about? Was it after one occasion or was he trying many different ways to make you orgasm, there has to be more to your story than you have said. How did you break it to him that he wasn’t doing quite what you needed? What I mean is your relationship must have been showing decline before this very weird behaviour from him!

There is definitely an irony that lots of men couldn't care less if the woman orgasms as long as they do and he's the other end of the spectrum of toxic

I'm sorry OP, I agree with the previous comment saying this is a good reason to leave

Did he watch the baby being born?

I have heard some men say they struggle to have sex after seeing their wives give birth- It's very unfair and unreasonable, but it's how some feel.

They have a baby, I mean that's quite telling in itself

We have a deal, if someone wants to wank and the other person is in the house (and we’re child free!) the other person gets ‘first refusal’. Works for us though as it’s a mutual agreement. About a 50% uptake rate 😂

This doesn’t sound like it’s working for you, OP. How would you like it to look, as that level of frequency doesn’t seem like it’s working for him

I don’t have a problem with whatever people want to do. But pissiness is not me.. or apparently not his next partners preference lol

Shave all your hair and uncover the clitoris, then find a way his stomach and skin rub on it while doing the penetration sex also....see what happens

You enjoy him having the confidence to be himself in front of you. You maybe help him out? Maybe have a conversation about the issue and how it makes you feel?

She didn’t really mention that as part of the initial weird problem, but I see what your getting at, I actually wish I’d never stepped into this arena and asked, I’m out 😂

He can choose to masterbate

He can also choose to not have sex

You can also choose to leave OP

So you’ve started this thread to brag tell us about your amazing out of this world sex life. Thanks for sharing.

How long have you been together OP?

Lol I’d guess that the majority of women don’t get off just from sex alone. Your husband is believing some made up men’s fantasy notion that that’s normal. Shame he’s punishing you for this.

Pissing where it affects other people {Hotel beds- phone boxes} is really gross.
There were some men protesting about Trans rights and they were pouring pee on themselves and all over the building and in entrance to building- it was just foul.
If they want to pee in their own houses, that's up to them. But expecting others to clear up after is selfish .

Fucking hell. I'm in a desert and you think braging...

Are you hard of reading?

Why is everyone talking about piss porn on my thread?

That's just how he feels. Maybe you could talk it through.

He can masturbate as often as he wants.
It doesn’t matter if he’s having sex with you or not.
It’s a complete non issue.

If he’s refusing to have sex with you and you’ve tried discussing it with him, then it’s up to you to decide whether you want to stay in a sexless relationship or not.

Would you consider having sex therapy (together)?

This

Wrong thread I think lovely

er?😂

She's had sex 3 times in a year. Hardly bragging.