WWYD? BF moving didn’t tell me

[ShockedAF]

Been with bf 3y.
We live next door. We see each other most days and have done for the last 2y.

Recently he’s been on tidy spree, saying he wants to declutter his life. I was over there last night seemed normal.

Today a For Sale sign has gone up. He’s at work. Photographs already online at the Estate Agent.

He’s texting as normal. I feel sick and shaky. I’ve gone ice cold.

He’s decluttering me out of his life isn’t he?

My plan is to just block him and never speak to him again. WWYD?

With him being allowed to keep renting it..

Just ask him.

Nah he’s just a shit ex boyfriend. Plenty of them around.

And he obviously wanted her to notice and call and question him accordingly. But what is there to even discuss at that point even? When your boyfriend of 3 years has put his house up for sale without having the guts to even mention it. He’s a fucking weirdo and she was well within her rights to block and delete and ignore him forever.

You've been with him 3 years & frightened to ask him why he hasn't mentioned he's selling up because he'll evade the question, gaslight you or laugh in your face. FGS, just ask him 'Why didn't you tell me you were selling up & moving?' see what he says & go from there. TBH it sounds like it could be a good thing if he moves away & ends the relationship. He sounds like a real catch NOT! He obvs doesn't think too much of you or respect you for not mentioning something so big going on in his life. Do you really want someone that can keep something like that under wraps for so long & then only say something when it's blatant & has to broach the subject with you after you've asked. DUMP HIM!

Thanks @Goodtogossip
You’re a little late to this one but he did get dumped.
He hasn’t exactly accepted it.
It’s been a very weird few weeks.
I feel OK though and have reconnected with friends etc etc.
I won’t say too much more now but will update when he’s gone maybe
🌻

ive clearly missed this- but did you ask him WHY hes leaving?!

why his house is for sale and he didnt tell you?

or did you just block and ignore!?

Yes I updated on 9 Oct at 23.11 pm. Not surprised you missed it. The thread grew so fast, it was a bit overwhelming.

Got himself into a financial pickle. But he’s choosing to move instead of other options available to him so I decided to call it a day.

Good for you, ShockedAF.

I missed you actually confirming you’d dumped him too… don’t think it was very clear you had… but you made it clear you’d intended to…. Either way I hope you’re ok?
I hope you managed to book a week away somewhere nice, and disappear for a week without telling him 😂
I hope he moves asap so you don’t have to see him anymore!
Has he left you alone?
good luck @ShockedAF … hope you’re doing ok x

Thanks for the update, OP. Good for you. Onwards and upwards!

Well done, OP! I hope you have some fun things planned.