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Sent a bum pic - he asked if I had worked out then said room for improvement?

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sarahbranningtonxx · 15/07/2024 20:00

Bit of context lol.. I sent a bum pic to my fiance... he replied why is there underwear on and then asked if I had worked out (we both know that we both need to work out but both haven't got around to it yet, a mutual thing, i ask him he asks me)
I kinda got offended because i thought that meant the pic didn't look good, so I replied kind of silly saying oh why don't you like my bum how it is haha and he replied "lol nice" (as in sarcastic like oh nice of you to say) - but didn't reassure me or anything which left me feeling a little insecure. So then I literally just said "that was a question" and he said he does like it how it is but there is always room for improvement as you would say. (i would not say this about his physical appearance)

I kind of feel like this is a odd thing to say lol - I mean granted there is! I have put on a stone or two. Just made me feel insecure, and feel it wasn't really needed. thoughts??

OP posts:
llamajohn · 16/07/2024 16:14

Lessons to learn here;

Don't send arse pics.

Apolloneuro · 16/07/2024 16:29

Whatever his response, it sounds like you sent the photo because he blamed you for his looking at other girls, not because you’re a confident, sexual lady.

That’s a shame and I don’t think he deserves your bum, in the flesh or on a screen.

Deathraystare · 16/07/2024 19:35

@bossybloss
Sadly, yes. But I guess if one of them has alzheimer's they can remember what the other one's bum looks like even when they are not around.....

Parisianparty · 15/09/2024 02:22

Sasqwatch · 15/07/2024 20:18

Grim

*gym

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