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Please help me to see that this is not normal and that I need to cut him off.

Fell in love with another love bombing narcissist and I think I'm about to have to try and cut myself loose...

My thoughts exactly…it made me feel sick reading that.

I hope you didn’t get sucked into replying further and trying to justify yourself.

That’s how they confuse you and keep you trying. They say mad stuff they know isn’t true but instead of saying ‘fuck off’ we tie ourselves in knots trying to prove we aren’t lying. They sit back and enjoy the confusion.

Just block, delete, run - as per PP.

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This. Dump. Very assertively. No one talks or texts or in any way gets to treat you like that.

Absolutely this one is not it. Throw him right back. That's scary controlling.

He's checking your snap score? 😳 RUN!

Yep. Avoid

Ew.
Block.

Give him his due like he's just identified what a ravin loon he is within 4 text messages, no beating around the Bush there is the.

Run run run run run run run. Then block.

I wouldn't engage further. I'm actually laughing because he's just bonkers!

block, run and don't add men on snapchat.

Imagine living with him and being constantly scrutinised like this. All day, every day.
End it now.

Block and run

Just the amount of xxxxxxxx he puts would be enough for me lol

Omg go away with that crap!

Run. This man will question and twist everything you say and do and drain your energy.

Please do block op. I know narcs have a way of pulling you back in. They trauma bond you. I know exactly how it feels. People say block, get rid and you think ah but I can't.. then one day they just discard you like you never excited. Because all that love bombing shit means absolutely nothing. A week before the one I knew ghosted me he was telling me how amazing I was and made his life complete. It was just words. He just stopped talking to me, wouldn't answer calls and I wish I had listened to everyone. They're all the same, the xxxxx and making u send them, constantly watching you, wanting attention but they're doing it with a load of other "supplies". Take on what everyone has said.

He's not a nice guy.

The last two messages are aggressive and an instant block from me.

Especially the last one. My instinct spirals with that one. That could spiral into something dreadful. Please do what others say and block.

Nah move on

I’m presuming he’s says you said you were to busy to rely but in that time you said you were busy you’d been active and posting on snap chat and not replying to him

If you were actively in a too and fro conversation on WA then you just left the conversation without explanation left them hanging then moved onto another SM platform then come back to them saying you’d been busy with work that would piss me off

it depends how you left the original conversation

I don't have (I presume, Snap Chat) and don't know how it works...

Is it 'typically' used for dating/ flirting? I'm guessing the number of messages you send is visible?

If that's true, (OK, the way he asked is absolutely wrong, but...) isn't this a fair question?

Would it not be the same as seeing someone on an OLD site? If Snap Chat is simply just a social thing and you can/do chat to friends, then of course, he's being aggressive and massively controlling.

Isn't it scary how this sounds like so many of our exes/people we have had close calls with.

Oh god, absolutely dump. I’ve got secondhand fury.

'Stop stalking me like a nutter. Behave like a normal human being. Not hard is it? Bye' and block...

Yes it's a social media platform.
Could be used how the person wants to use it, whether just mates or flirting

Run, and if you do stay, Clare's Law him

What action/non action have you taken?
Hope you're ok

Hi all,

Sorry I have been watching your replies but finding it worrying and upsetting. Also wish I hadn't got myself into this situation again. The last narcissist I was with ended with a restraining order and him smashing my car and trying to force entry into my home. Why is it that, as an empath, I just fall for them so easy?

For those who are worried it's the same guy, his name is Jared. I think there's just lots of fucked up guys to be honest.

Pics attached..

Any reason why you still haven't blocked him??