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Please help me to see that this is not normal and that I need to cut him off.

Fell in love with another love bombing narcissist and I think I'm about to have to try and cut myself loose...

Block, delete, run.

Also, tell him he's an arsehole before you start. You can do sooooooo much better than this!

Honestly why are men such entitled shits?!

Grim. AS. FUCK!

Why are some men such horrible detestable creatures? 😖

Awful.

Obviously dump him.

I know it's not the worst of it by any stretch but what kind of grown adult with a fully developed brain would notice or care what someone's snap score is? That alone would make me run for the hills, nevermind the whole being a controlling lunatic thing.

This is from a whole ass adult?!? Fuck that.

Omg what a fucking LOSER!

Don't grace him with a response. Just block. He sounds an utter dick!

Oh yes, run away.

He's unpleasant.

And his spelling is shit.

Be the better person, OP.

Tell him to fuck the fuck off then block immediately.

Add xs if your feeling really snarky.

Good luck for next time x

Crikey OP do you really have to be told this one’s not a keeper?

Dangerous man alert! 🚨

I’ve been in a relationship with someone who with slightly different phrasing said exactly the same. Terrifying. He became physically abusive.

leave now whilst you can. He won’t take it well but involve the police asap if he doesn’t give up instantly and keep all messages as evidence

I'd be responding "oh do fuck off" and then blocking. Life is way too short for that BS.

Do you REALLY need anyone to tell you he's an arsehole?? Haven't you told him to fuck off and never contact you again? If not, why not?

Bloody hell!

This is not even a maybe.

I echo what all of the other posters are saying - don’t walk, fucking run!!!

This man is no good and you need to stay far away from him!!

I would have dropped him when he called me "bub". Yuuuck!

How dare he speak to you like that!

What right does he have speaking to you like something he just stepped in.

Tell him you can snap whoever the fuck you want and to not message you again because it’s over.

You know this isn't normal, it's why you've posted here. Protect yourself from this shit and get rid of him.

Vile. Don't reply.

Ick. Time to say goodbye. He sounds like a right charmer.

I'd never speak to him again once I saw the word 'bub'.Horrible.

Blocka blocka blocka

Men displaying that level of paranoia about who you are messaging and what you are doing; are usually projecting their own dodgy behaviour onto you.

My ex years ago was like this, at the time I thought it was normal ... it isn't and things only got worse

Woah!! Sounds like my daughter's father!!! Jesus!! He's keeping track on your snap score? OMG I had this with my ex he still doesn't now but I had to delete and block him off my snap chat and all my social media because he was looking at my likes and comments and scouring blokes who had liked it or commented on my things! Right now I am having a shit show of a time with him it's just too much! Defo do a list of positive and negative things on this bloke and I bet the negative 100% out weigh the positive! You need to cut loose before this gets out of hand hun! I should have done earlier but I ended up having a child with this sort of man! 😔😩

I've had to read this again because he literally has duplicated what my daughter's father used to do with the 'xxxxxxx' 'bub' OMG it's actually scary! Is he a Dan? 😬