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Ex has Texted 🙄

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LilacButterflies · 02/07/2024 03:23

Hello!

I was in a relationship for 6 years and 2 years ago he just disappeared. We didn't live together because I have a child and I didn't want him living with us. I didn't really have any plans tbh, was just enjoying it all.

He met DD after 3 years and was actually brilliant with her, his mum and family were also lovely towards us too.

So on a Tuesday AM 2 years ago he left mine for work at 5am and it's the last time I saw him.

I realised at around lunchtime that I had been blocked. I got a txt that night from his best friend saying:
"* has dumped you. Do not attempt to contact him across ANY channels or his family or friends!!!!!!!"

I didn't try to BTW, I was too embarrassed. I just deleted his number and avoided his area as best as I could.

Anyway roll on to work this arvo and I get this message:

Him: "Hey me how are you? How's DD?"

Me: "sorry who's this? I don't have your number in my contacts"

Him: Ben.

I haven't replied and just deleted his message but shit after 2 years and the way i was dumped it was so unexpected.

My friends think I should have replied.

OP posts:
toadinthebucket · 16/07/2024 22:16

beatrix1234 · 09/07/2024 13:40

@LilacButterflies I saw him at work yesterday and he introduced me to his colleague as his partner, and it sounds so shit to admit but I'm used to that. I know he won't ever change.

A putin convention in Moscow has less red flags than the above paragraph . This man is either deluded or not right in his head.

Edited

Putin is not a communist. He wouldn't have red flags.

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