Who performs oral sex on their partner? Is it unusual to never do it?

[Sumspring]

How many couples are there out there who do oral sex?

Does your male partner goes down on you?

Do you perform oral sex on them?

My husband and I have never done it. I was wondering if we are unusual not to.

Do most couples do it?

When I see a sex scene in a film, the man often goes down on the woman first. Does this represent sex in most relationships?

I just have no idea, because I don't ask my friends about this.

Personally I don’t like receiving it which has damaged a few egos of people who think they’re soo good, but I’ve tried lots of times and find it soo boring 😂. So now I just say no.
I will give it if asked but I don’t love giving it, not a huge fan of the smell or taste of precum

It was a typo,if you can't work it out,I meant LOVELIVES,but hey,if you don't mind some perv wanking over your intimate details go ahead!

Potential relationships have ended in the bedroom when the other person dislikes oral.

What culture is this @PopcornPop ?

I've never had sex with a man that wasn't enthusiastic about going down on me. DH and I have oral every time, either as foreplay or the main event. I honestly would not be with someone that didn't give oral as I love it.

I assumed they had penetrative sex?

I'm sorry, you do what with their foreskin??

You can't be serious!!

@ExhaustedHousewife I mean, sure that's a minor risk I guess, but it's all totally anonymous so a) who cares and b) more importantly it might actually help out the OP.

If this thread isn't for you, I totally get it. But to turn up just to criticise others for choosing to participate is unnecessary.

Blimey. The mind boggles.

Also @ExhaustedHousewife no one is giving a blow by blow (ha!) account. It’s all fairly general - “yes, we do/no we don’t/I prefer to give/receive”

I love giving and receiving.

My husband likes neither so we just don't do it.

I do miss it I have to say. Sigh. Thankfully I can come from PIV about 95% of the time. But yeah I miss it.

my husband gives me oral maybe 6 times a year, i give him oral maybe 3 or 4, neither of us feel the need to do it more, we just get right into it Haha

@Sumspring How about a poll ?

He goes down on me more than I do him, but I quite like giving oral too. Its a normal part of sex

No, neither of us can be bothered with it 😂

Neither of us like giving or receiving oral sex.

How did he feel about having that talk, OP? You must be grateful but was he?

Did you ever like sex? Did you think marriage was just about companionship?

No (even the thought gives me the ick) and I am long term happily married.

People choosing to share details is fine. Personally, I found the post about sucking their partners dick quickly before children come in disgusting. Been on here long enough to know people actually do things like this ew

Those that can climax through piv sex…. Just how????

I hate it done on me. Really don't like it at all. However I am more than happy to do it on a man. Really really enjoy pleasing a man that way.
I think it would be quite unusual for it not to feature at all though.

I couldn't tell you how, but I honestly don't think I have ever had piv sex and not climaxed.

So interested in this!!! There's research on this and only 10% of women can climax from piv alone. Most can't, so it is unusual/enviable

I seem unusual in my friendship circle that I don’t like receiving oral. I much prefer hands/toys, so my husband does that for me. I have been trying to relax a bit more into it but I find it really hard work, which sex really shouldn’t be 😂 However, I enjoy giving oral as much as he enjoys receiving it, so that’s a fairly standard part of sex for us.