Who performs oral sex on their partner? Is it unusual to never do it?

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How many couples are there out there who do oral sex?

Does your male partner goes down on you?

Do you perform oral sex on them?

My husband and I have never done it. I was wondering if we are unusual not to.

Do most couples do it?

When I see a sex scene in a film, the man often goes down on the woman first. Does this represent sex in most relationships?

I just have no idea, because I don't ask my friends about this.

I get so wet that oral doesn't feel like anything for me so I get very little from it.
I do like knowing my partner loves how I taste so I enjoy a little bit for that reason but no way would I ever be able to cum from it.

Have you ever cum from oral?

I get very wet as does my partner, and I'm not sure how that would change the clitoral sensation?

Never.
I need friction.

I just feel very little from oral when I'm so wet. I do feel slightly more if It's from behind and prefer it that way but I wouldn't settle into oral in that position. I just enjoy it it that way between changing positions etc

Of course it’s not unusual. I wouldn’t have sex with someone who would not go down on me. No oral = no entry!

Ah, gotcha.

Thanks for replying! I really was curious.

My last relationship was interesting because my bf didn’t like receiving at all. It wasn’t a skill issue on my part he just had his own reasons. He would occasionally go down on me but not often enough. When he did it was phenomenal.

Major typo error here. I meant to say of course it’s unusual not to do it! More or less guaranteed orgasm for me.

😂😂😉

Who are all these women who don't like receiving?! 🤯 my wife and I can't get enough of giving and receiving... not many things better than my head between her legs.

It's almost like we're not all the same and we're allowed our own preferences.

Of course we can have our own preferences!
it's just a bit sad reading how many women on here say they don't do it as they're paranoid they smell (they shouldn't if they've showered fairly recently and not unwell) and cos their partner isn't great at it

Position, position, position. Keep trying until you find one (or multiple) that works for you.

In answer to the OP, we both enjoy giving and receiving oral and do most times before we have sex or sometimes instead of (unless we only have time for a quickie). Depends on the relationship I suppose but I find it sad when people say they would "never" do it. Like it's something dirty to be ashamed of...

It's not sad. Everyone is different, with different likes and hang ups. Imagine if we were all the same.

It's not sad, it's just preference. Some of my friends love anal, for example, but even though I've tried it, I'm not into it.
Some people like it on top, some like it from behind, etc etc. All comes down to preference.

Yes, it's standard for both of us to give and receive.

I've only ever slept with one man who didn't like oral sex, and the fact that he didn't like it instantly put me off him.

God yes. It's probably the main part of our sex life tbh, we both love it.

I know 🤮

I’ve reported. Hopefully Mumsnet with check it out.

Eh, if the OP prefers to read these answers despite having access to porn on the Internet, that's kinda sad.

If this is what gets someone off, God bless them.

It's usually specifically about involving others that aren't actually consenting.

Eh? No one is going down on them!

I'm not paranoid that I smell. I still don't like oral sex so DH doesn't do it. Like I said before more than happy to give him oral.

You and your wife probably don't like some things that other people are obsessed with either.

We're all different!

Exactly. No harm done either way.

I actually envy women who have orgasmed from receiving oral. I'm mid-40s and have only received it a few times in my life. The thing is I would love to receive it from someone who is skilled and enthusiastic about giving oral to a woman. I also wouldn't mind if it was a man or woman doing it.