Help needed. I'm sure my DH is up to something and I need proof.
I can see he's on wassap constantly when I'm at the office, like every 10 minutes.
Every he comes back I can see him in the car on his phone before he comes in so he's probably deleted messages because when I check his phone there's nothing from those times, if they are deleted then there's no getting then back right?
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Sleepless865 · 17/04/2024 11:40
ScottishShortie · 17/04/2024 11:48
Ps if you’re really suspicious and he’s not that tech savvy you can hook his wattsap up to a pc eg your laptop then you can see the messages. Someone I know did this and caught their OH out but if he checked ‘connected devices’ at any point he’d see you’d done this so it’s a risk
bethatgirl · 17/04/2024 12:00
This is exactly how I caught my ex husband out. Constantly on WhatsApp. Exactly the same thing, OP :(
Sleepless865 · 17/04/2024 11:54
I checked who he's most contacted a while ago but it won't pick up deleted messages
ScottishShortie · 17/04/2024 12:08
Yes that’s correct. Can you go
through contacts see if there’s any you don’t recognise?
Sleepless865 · 17/04/2024 11:54
I checked who he's most contacted a while ago but it won't pick up deleted messages
WhamBamThankU · 17/04/2024 12:15
Sorry to say my ex did this too. Constantly online on WhatsApp but empty message threads when you clicked on them, and he certainly wasn't talking to me.
BodyKeepingScore · 17/04/2024 12:18
Is there anything other than the fact that he's showing online on WhatsApp that's arousing your suspicions?
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Sleepless865 · 17/04/2024 12:22
Yes, I found history he's looked at flats to rent ....I asked and he gave me an answer that didn't make sense.
BodyKeepingScore · 17/04/2024 12:18
Is there anything other than the fact that he's showing online on WhatsApp that's arousing your suspicions?
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