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Sleepless865 · 17/04/2024 11:40

Help needed. I'm sure my DH is up to something and I need proof.
I can see he's on wassap constantly when I'm at the office, like every 10 minutes.
Every he comes back I can see him in the car on his phone before he comes in so he's probably deleted messages because when I check his phone there's nothing from those times, if they are deleted then there's no getting then back right?

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ScottishShortie · 18/04/2024 09:08

highlo · 18/04/2024 06:37

The fact there's nothing dodgy in his 3 most contacted is a good sign. Obviously he could still be contacting someone but it doesn't add up with how regularly you see him online......weird!!

You can Wattsapp someone 24/7 but if you then delete the entire chat they do t even show up as recently contacted

booboo24 · 18/04/2024 16:14

DixonD · 18/04/2024 00:33

You can hide locked chats even from this list.

You can remove the chat lock though, which clears the chats, but moves the name into the normal inbox so you'd at least see if he's using it....settings, privacy, chat lock, unlock and clear. It would be obvious you've done it though and would remove his secret code so he'd know you had done it.

Orchidlie22 · 18/04/2024 20:07

My ex sent the ow a WhatsApp sat next to me whilst driving for a weekend away. I had zero idea as he was a clever liar/cheat!

EG94 · 18/04/2024 20:20

Gosh this sounds like a horrible familiar feeling. Women know when the energy is off, we just know. Trust your gut!

ScottishShortie · 18/04/2024 21:32

That energy shift that we detect is innate, it’s there in our ‘chimp’ brains. It’s about sensing danger ….this also applies to threats to our security and safety in relationships

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