Any ideas? Known of several who are adamant they never want children only to get into a relationship with someone else and have them… I’m sure sometimes unplanned pregnancies but often planned too.
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Why do men who “don’t want kids” end up having one with the next woman they meet
lalalapancakes · 13/03/2024 05:20
MississippiAF · 13/03/2024 05:21
They just didn’t want to settle down/have kids with the previous person.
Bumpitybumper · 13/03/2024 06:43
I actually know a few men like this who genuinely never did want children and they told all their partners this who seemingly accepted it. They then got into a relationship with a woman who this is a non-negotiable for and who they are desperate not to lose so they make the compromise for them. I don't think their desire for children actually changed.
Some appear decent fathers and others still seem reluctant even when the child is here. I think it's a big gamble for a woman to have a child with a man that has no Intrinsic desire for a child.
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