Hi all,
Dipped my toe into OLD in November, I'm 31.
Quite a few of my friends and family say I can come across as very aloof/disinterested. Both in person and over text towards dating prospects. Like I can seem as though I'm giving someone the brush off.
I matched with a guy a few months back and he asked me out over Xmas. I had to cancel, he asked me to re-arrange and also messaged me happy new year on New Year's Day,
I took five weeks to reply. Awful I know but I get nervous about dating and I'm very indecisive plus had family staying from Toronto for 3 weeks so was hectic. I messaged him to explain why January was hectic and that I would like to go out.
He actually replied only one hour later to say great to have family over from far off lands and okay fantastic let's get something planned, smiley face.
I replied back joking they had slightly outstayed their welcome and then to his message saying 'let's get something arranged' I said 'yes okay good'
That was 4 days ago and nothing. He read and didn't reply. So I guess I'm wondering if I should follow up and say 'sorry I didn't really finish my sentence, that should of said 'yes okay good let's get something organised'
I'm wondering now if he doesn't want to go out and sent that message back to me so he can be the one who does the ghosting!
Or if my message of 'yes okay good' didn't make sense or seemed disinterested?
I feel like other women would have no issue with interpreting any of this and knowing what to do but for me it's an issue!
Please advise if I should message again or just assume he is uninterested!