When you hear the phrase ‘She won’t let me see the children’ what do you think?

[Gardenerboo]

This is my ex husband’s narrative to anyone who will listen and it’s simple not the case.

We have 2 teenagers who have (at present) chosen not to see him following abuse.

Although my priority is obviously the children, I have moments where I feel angry at the injustice of what he is telling people. I know it shouldn’t matter, but it’s hard.

I think.. you're an abuser and you're trying to hide behind your ex being mentally unstable. Projection.

Same as my Ex. 2 women 'blocked him' from his kids. In reality he's a cheating, abusive, uncaring dick who has to be forced to maintain any relationship.

It's likely rare but it's not always the case that it's the guy that is in the wrong. I only know this as it's happened to me, my stbxw is actually the abusive partner, I had to leave for my own safety and as soon as I did, has taken everything we own, including our children, not only from myself but everyone both sides.

I haven't seen or spoken to mine in an extremely long time, so long even social services are shocked. Not because I've been found guilty of any wrongdoing, noone has said to and I've not been arrested but because of control, lies, malice and legal threats. It's long waiting for court hearings and serious investigations are being carried out as there is major concerns about their welfare and safety.

I am in a role reversal, all the nasty stuff abusive guys do to their wives, during and after separation, mine is doing to me.

My sons ex thinks the court order is optional, back to court again .