Well this thread has turned slightly odd, given your first ten or so posts, where you were quite explicit that this was all your own fault, you'd were picking arguments two or three nights on the trot after too much to drink, banging on about the same issue over and over, because (having told him a few days earlier that is his planned birthday gift was 'creepy') he didn't manage to conjure up something better out of thin air in what time he had left, because his credit card was lost.
Your drunken insistence on 'going ballistic' in another argument at the end of a night out had finally driven away this patient, perfect man, your best friend, who had been pushed too far and he'd told you he was done. You were ashamed and bereft that the police had to be called to 'calm you down.' He packed his bags and left you, blocked you on FB, broken your heart, never coming back.
It only took a few people to insist that actually he's the manipulative narc in this scenario, calling the police unnecessarily just to make a fool of you in front of the children and the neighbours. He was never scared, all you did was an tiny bit of harmless lady-shouting. I mean what grown man would be scared of that?
And the police only came out because they were bored and had nothing else to do, so there's nothing for you to be ashamed of after all. A storm in a teacup. Nothing to see here. He phoned them while he was in the bathroom, presumed to be doing a pee. That's evidence, apparently, that this was all a nasty bit of manipulation on his part.
If it were a woman it would be assumed she was locked in the bathroom for her own safety, or just so she could make the call without having the phone ripped from her hand by the shouty drunkard, but in this case it's assumed he's casually calling the police while doing a pee, to make you look stupid and to exert some sort of power over you. This amazing 'best friend' who is 'too good' a man, this normally 'loving and tactile' husband of yours, who you have a 'healthy' and 'happy' relationship with. He just called the police while doing a pee, to punish you for shouting about the lack of a birthday present.
And he hasn't actually 'left you' or 'blocked you' as such, he's just stuck the kids in the car and gone to the holiday home for a couple of days, leaving you to stew in it, to make you doubt yourself and think you behaved worse than you did. Because apparently it was his plan to engineer this whole thing so he could leave you, all along.
You've been convinced by all these posters that you are the victim here, you seem happy that your children have brushed off the whole experience without a backward glance, no trauma, nothing, (although perhaps quietly wondering to themselves why on earth Dad called the police on Mum for no good reason) and they are not actually thinking their family life as they know it is imploding and worrying if divorce is imminent. No. None of that. Just a couple of days at the holiday home with Dad but not with Mum. A few happy, normal texts back a forth.
Suddenly it's all very a different vibe going on in your posts from the immediate aftermath. Now he's fucking with you, telling you to leave him alone, then reeling you in with photos of the kids, discussing what they've had for tea etc.
There is some complete bullshit going on here somewhere, I'm just not sure where, or from whom.