Just found out partner of 10 years pays for hand jobs

[Havanawinter]

I was sending myself some pics on my partners WhatsApp and saw a random message thread, so yes I clicked. Turns out it’s for a Thai massage lady called Mimi who offers “B2B” which google tells me is basically a happy ending. I’m in total shock. I have confronted him and he admitted it. Said he has only been once but had another one booked in for a few weeks time.

He’s putting the kids to bed and I’m sat in the bedroom in absolute shock. I thought we were happy. We have 2 kids aged 5 and 2. We were discussing trying for a third. I’ve just started a new job. We’re not married, please don’t flame me for this, I can’t take it right now.

What do I do? I need a hand hold. And a hug. I can’t believe this has happened to me. I never thought I’d be here.

🐂💩

My point was that she doesn't have to put up with that sick SOAB in order to be happy or have a life. There is happiness after, it is financially possible and it's actually nice not having to worry about "him" and what he's up too. I spent 16 years with a man married to the bottle who was also a porn/w@nk man. It almost drove me insane "trying to keep the family together"! Took me almost another ten years till he finally let go but had to endure years of vile disgusting drunken texts, him out every Friday n Saturday night lying about me etc. Main reason I didn't leave ? I didn't know how, until I read a msg on FB a friend said "if you're not happy ......leave! I did n look at me now" with a picture of her n her family all smiles. Thanks for the pointless nasty comment tho, made me type this out and it might inspire someone else to leave disgusting behaviour and find happiness

Well said.

Glad you are out of that situation and ignore the haters aka whoresiffemalesleazesifmale who are full of 💩

You sound like a very bitter person, tbh nothing smug about enjoying being single. Nothing smug about saying what a relief it is to be free of a dirty drunken man! Stop trying to wind people up.

Totally agree!! This "power BMI" sounds like one of those people who deliberately winds people up then says "you sound angry" when you retaliate!! Sounds bitter to me, someone without many friends. Again cheers, here's to happiness, relief and freedom!!

Yes :)

They are probably either the giver or receiver of said activities.

Enjoy being single; I love it. 😎

It's all transient, what you enjoy today you may not tomorrow and vice versa.

I loved being single in my 20s. As I got older I love the comfort of a loving relationship.

I just wanted to bring this post back up again.
Even the masseuse is blushing and asking if he's sure.

He's pretty determined to get his B2B.

I hope you are okay @Havanawinter

Oh it didn't post the screenshot of phone.

hey, kind of just going through this myself and i wanted to get an update on your situation if you wouldn’t mind sharing

Pretty much everything I wanted to say.

Hand jobs don't cost £130.