To keep dating him or not? Doesn't drive or earn very much

[CattyCattle]

I've recently started dating a man who doesn't drive and takes home just under 2k a month. He lives in a house share, spends his money on socialising and fun.

On paper he's my cup of tea apart from the above. We bounce off each other really good!

But he also has death grip from wanking so much. Sex is good but goes on for a long time, too long!

He seems like a really nice guy and I'm worried I'm being a bit too choosy. I do like him but I don't have butterflies. I wonder if I'm finding things not to like that I wouldn't care about if I had those butterflies.

@CattyCattle Maybe have a word with yourself on why you are obsessed with coming back to this thread and continuing to make nasty posts!

Actually This is what you’ve been doing pretty much the whole thread, including calling someone the “c” word then acting all surprised for being reported.

Some women seem to think women shouldn’t have a sexuality of their own or the right to turn men down, it’s utterly bizarre. They get very angry at other women who aren’t grateful for any male attention and who won’t give men ‘a chance’, as if they’re running a charity dating service. It goes completely against nature, women should be more fussy, we should be very picky about the men we settle down with.

Clearly you’re not a good match, just end it and move on. There’s no need to analyse the reasons and if they’re good enough or shallow or whatever, he doesn’t do it for you, simple as that.

It's my thread @Sandra1984 so of course I'll be returning to it. I don't however, find posts, insult people, blame them for having their boundaries violated (like you did and your post was removed for that) and keep going on and on. I don't willfully create misconstrued scenarios and then cherry pick bits to insult the OP. I don't do that! Why do you?

Well it's clear you've completely missed my point 🙄. Of course there are loads of people who live in London who don't drive! There's no need for them to drive because, as you've mentioned, there's decent public transportation. If I lived in London I wouldn't drive either or bother owning a car.

However, I have the ability to drive. So if I wanted to head off outside London somewhere, I could hire a car and drive. Or if I went abroad on my holidays, I could hire a car. I wouldn't have to rely on my friend/ partner etc to drive me places as I'm a grown adult.
And I know you find this unbelievable, but I really do view driving as a life skill and it would be a HUGE turn off for me if a potential partner decided not to bother learning. But, hey, each to their own.

FYI I didn't report you OP but I did see what you said.

I stand by my original post.

A man who doesn't drive (assuming he doesn't live in central London) is about as appealing as a man who can't read/write.

I didn’t blame you for having your boundaries violated, that would be completely nuts in my part, I blamed you for continuing to see a man who sexually assaulted you in a first date and blaming his inadecuacy as a potential partner in the fact he makes 600 pounds less than you. Of course you’re entitled to date whoever you want (and you should) but you’re putting the emphasis on money and not paying attention to a bigger and much more serious elephant in the room.

Yes you did and no I'm not. Your post wouldn't have been removed otherwise.. but carry on posting as it is just continuing to show what kind of person you are.

And Guinness, so do I 👍

Cotton, the reading comprehension from a few posters is terrible!

Just under 2k a month take home. So would be 30 something K a year before deductions 👍

Obviously you're not in the UK then! £65k for every lorry driver 😂