Help me catch him

[Darkdarknight99]

For all you master detectives out there....
NC for this one but longtime poster.

Long story short, I've suspected for a while that my partner of 18 months was lying to me about seeing another woman.

He's been behaving strangely in our communications all weekend, and my friend has just sent me an incriminating photo from the OW's social media.

Can anyone tell me where this place is? He's very manipulative and I suspect a master gaslighter, and unless I confront him with where I knew he was, I'll get nothing.

Oh bless you. I don't know where it is but maybe a Google image search will?

Derwentwater.

Google image search brings up
lots of Lake District pages but not sure where abouts exactly sorry

Looks like the Lake District

Why go to all this effort to catch him? You don’t believe him; you think he’s cheating so break up

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@lastofthesmalltownplayboys thank you, I tried that but unfortunately I got not matches.

Admittedly I'm not very techy with things like that

Google says Lake District

PM sent

How is it incriminating? I don't follow.

Quite possibly the Lake District.

@Quveas I thought Derwentwater to. There's also a stone, man-made 'viewpoint' just out of shot, looks around 3 and a half ft tall.

I obviously had to cut the OW from the photo I uploaded though.

Google says lake district cropped photo from All Trails

But you describe him as very manipulative and a master gaslighter, so you'll be dumping him anyway I assume?

Keswick, Lake District. That little island is on Derwentwater.

@SuperSange, it's incriminating as the unclipped photo shows him on holiday with another women.

When I thought he was at home with his elderly family members all weekend...

I am positive. I know the specific area - literally within yards - very well as I lived near there for a time and regularly walked the route that photo was taken on. And yes, there are viewpoints there too. If you know the area that view is unmistakable.

@NewPinkJacket I absolutely will. I just wanted to be fully armed when I confront him, as I'm sorry to say he's managed to wiggle his way out of things before.

Not this time

Well done catching him out OP, no flies on you!

Can you see OW's social media too - how come your friend saw the photo?

Does it matter where the photo is though? If he's in the pic with the OW, surely he's bang to rights no matter where it is! Sorry if I've missed something...

I guess maybe he might claim that he was where she thought and the OW is "just" some family member / old friend that he went for a walk with. But if he was supposed to be in Kent and he's in Keswick.....

That said, I don't think proof should be necessary. If you don't trust someone it is irrelevant whether they are lying or not - you need to dump them.

@Spottybluepyjamas it's only his dog in the photo, not him, so I wanted to make sure I ad as much solid information as I could when I confront him.

Definitely Derwent water

Stick Keswick in his satnav and see if he went there recently

Tbh, I've not felt comfortable with him recently, I've been feeling like he's not being honest with me about some things, but I couldn't quite put my finger on it.

An old mutual friend said a couple of months ago that she'd seen him out with another woman, but couldn't be 100% sure. Now this photo's come to light- without being too outing, she knows the woman and recognises his dog in the photo