Help me catch him

[Darkdarknight99]

For all you master detectives out there....
NC for this one but longtime poster.

Long story short, I've suspected for a while that my partner of 18 months was lying to me about seeing another woman.

He's been behaving strangely in our communications all weekend, and my friend has just sent me an incriminating photo from the OW's social media.

Can anyone tell me where this place is? He's very manipulative and I suspect a master gaslighter, and unless I confront him with where I knew he was, I'll get nothing.

Yes, i'd want as much information as I could find. It drums into you what a wanker he is and helps to bring closure.

Well done, OP! What was his reaction? I know you said he crumbled, but did he try to weasel out of it?

That's amazing, you got it instantly.

I looked at the pic and was wondering who would recognise a hill and some water without googling!

This. Just move on. The drama will only hurt you more

Well done, OP. I like your style!

Oh I feel for you, it's absolutely horrible when you realise all the evidence adds up and you were right all along. Well done on being so strong, blocking him on everything and,thus, not allowing himself to weedle his way back in. Hope you have a friend to talk to and be kind to yourself, you'll be feeling lots of different and strong emotions xx

Thank you so much everyone, I've been chatting to my friend and my sister this evening, they're keeping me sane.

It does feel so much easier to walk away knowing for sure.

In answer to your question @mainsfed, he just went silent... I resister the urge to fill the silence and let him hang himself.

Eventually he said he was sorry, but then he started trying to figure out how I knew. More concerned about how to tighten up the lies for the next poor women.