Pregnant & being called fat

[Bubblemachiene]

By partner in an argument, also infront of our dc. How would you handle this.

*stakes, not stairs 😣

https://www.docdroid.net/2fZmz40/why-does-he-do-that-pdf

I'd say he doesn't really intend to go to counselling, but if he were to go; he's trying to make it joint/couples counselling because his who is just too big for him to go to counseling on his own and look like he'd got a problem/he's the problem.

*his ego

Joint couciling is never recommended with an abuser anyway.

They twist shit and end up leaving you feeling worse. Sometimes they even con the therapist into believing their bs.

Even if he goes to counciling, guarantee he will just come back giving it 'my councilor says you don't understand me/you're the problem because xyz' and just use it as another tool to manipulate you.

No councilor can fix a lack of empathy anyway.

Nor can they make someone respect you who doesn't.