Don't want to eat after comments

[Feelingworthless1]

2 days ago my partner playfully slapped my bum and said "somebody's bum has got bigger"... I asked if he could please not comment on my weight because it upsets me and he said "well your bum is the size of Beyonces".
I'm a size 8 for context and he's about 3 stone over weight but thinks he's god.
I later said that I was going on a diet and he said "you don't need to diet, you just need to exercise and tone up"...he does no exercise and barely moves from the chair. He's on cholesterol and blood pressure tablets.
I didn't eat apart from dinner and had a chicken breast, brocoli and rice and he commented on my plate "wow that's a lot of food".

I'm feeling so insecure. He doesn't know but I was bulimic for a long time and so I don't like comments about my weight. I now feel that I can't eat.

@Feelingworthless1 can you reply to previous posters?
What have you done to help your kids cope with the domestic abuse? What therapy are they in? Why is your eldest not being safeguarded by his father? why have you not (presumably) asked Social Services for helping your kids with their traumatic upbringing? ‘Love’ your boyfriend in your own time, you don’t get to inflict horrors on your kids.

(I type as a a woman whose parents chose to max out on the ACE score, leaving me destroyed for life. Take PPs advice on your many horrific threads and centre your poor kids. You’ve has plenty of links to agencies that can help, choosing to not dump the man is fine, but absolutely not ok for the child victims.)