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How could the lady walk into his house that cost her life?

211 replies

Sunnygirl07 · 29/03/2023 15:48

Hello All,

Such a sad story. I can't understand. Was the house door open and not locked then?

We need to teach our children TO TALK, ASK QUESTIONS and NEVER to attack or fight without any need for it.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-65046548

Margaret Barnes

Barmouth: Man accused of murdering woman denies boasting

David Redfern denies the murder or manslaughter of a holidaymaker who mistook his home for a B&B.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-wales-65046548

OP posts:
Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:50

Yes - I have read that now. The article I read mid-trail did not say that. Hence my query over why murder and not manslaughter. It is a vicious crime either way. The information I have read just now makes it clear why, but the article I read at the start of the trial was very confusing.

IsaiditwasLighthearted · 29/03/2023 22:02

Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:42

Livers do tear more easily if enlarged from ARLD. That could happen from him dragging her down the stairs. Manslaughter is also a serious crime that commands a long prison sentence you know.

Well aren't you just a peach.

ChocSaltyBalls · 29/03/2023 22:06

Beantag · 29/03/2023 21:12

Oh I do.

Me too

Goodread1 · 29/03/2023 22:09

Hi Op
I was wondering 🤔 when someone would bring this story up on mumsnet, !

I really sincerely hope this Arsehole of a bloke,

Who to me comes, across as a human form of Shit,

Is treated the same way by other Prisoners like Prisoners and our society views Child killers and Paedophiles, !

The reason I feel and think this way is it is clearly obvious she was vunerable elderly woman who probably had undiagnosed Dementia issues and was drunk,
Or
was somewhat drunk and disoriented cause of either she drunk one too many or cause of it being dark night time she had misfortune to wander into Shit head's place/bedroom.

AmwajAnnie · 29/03/2023 22:09

I've been following this trial and I'm so glad he's been found guilty. This 'man' is a monster and what he did to that poor,frail elderly lady beggars belief. I hope he gets sent down for a long,long time. My heart breaks for Margaret Barnes and what she went through in her final minutes on this earth at the hands of this scumbag.

ChocSaltyBalls · 29/03/2023 22:09

Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:42

Livers do tear more easily if enlarged from ARLD. That could happen from him dragging her down the stairs. Manslaughter is also a serious crime that commands a long prison sentence you know.

Well there will have been a post mortem. Also there’s a concept in law called the thin skull rule ie you take your victim as you find them - so even if what you say about her liver is correct it doesn’t change the criminality

HelenaHurricane · 29/03/2023 22:16

In one article it says the murderer had drunk something like five or six pints and a gin himself btw. It wasn't as if he was terrified to find someone with a gin in his house or anything. Clearly a boozy person himself.

The difference is that she just made a silly mistake because she'd drunk a bit too much. He killed a little old lady.

Goodread1 · 29/03/2023 22:17

@EggBlanket

When some elderly people develop onset of Dementia they can become sometimes bit or somewhat aggressive or argumentative,

I hope This Arsehole bloke who killed this elderly woman,

Is attacked in Prison by other Prisoners too,

I hope The Prison officers warden just turn a blind eye to anyone who is nasty to this Arsehole/shit bloke

Orangebadger · 29/03/2023 22:17

Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:42

Livers do tear more easily if enlarged from ARLD. That could happen from him dragging her down the stairs. Manslaughter is also a serious crime that commands a long prison sentence you know.

Healthy livers haemorrhage very easily due to trauma as they are so vascularised.

He assaulted her, murdered her brutally. The state of her liver prior to this is irrelevant.

MissingMoominMamma · 29/03/2023 22:26

ddd20102010 · 29/03/2023 16:07

Awful human. She was an elderly lady asleep. Hardly a heavily built man with a weapon. I too think she possibly had undiagnosed dementia.

She wasn’t asleep, she was sitting up in bed drinking a G&T. He could’ve just spoken to her.

Absolute animal 😔.

MissingMoominMamma · 29/03/2023 22:31

Ah, I see he did speak to her. Ok then, he could’ve waited for the police.

PonyPatter44 · 29/03/2023 22:42

I cant understand why he didn't lock the front door. It's almost as if he liked his reputation as the local "hard man" and knew noone would ever dare to go into his house, regardless of locks. I'm sure he won't be half so brave in prison.

That poor poor woman, though, she must have been so terrified. I hope she was unconscious very quickly.

Goodread1 · 29/03/2023 22:52

@PonyPatter44

I totally agree with your comments,!

SquiddliDiddli · 29/03/2023 22:52

Dodecaheidyin · 29/03/2023 19:17

Perhaps she's his victim too.

Exactly. Have you seen the size of him?

SquiddliDiddli · 29/03/2023 22:56

Chowtime · 29/03/2023 18:58

I am so so glad that he was convicted of murder instead of manslaughter because thats exactly what he did. Murdered her.

I've seen a picture online of the street including that man's house and the B and B she was supposed to be staying at a few doors down and they do look very similar. I'm in my 50's and I can hand on heart say that I could have easily made that mistake, even without a drink.

Will he get life do you think?

I could absolutely see myself making the same mistake. That’s another reason why this case is so scary

Crazyshihtzulady · 29/03/2023 23:12

Apparently he called her "a scumbag" as she lay there dying.

Heartbreaking.

Crazyshihtzulady · 29/03/2023 23:15

Flyinggeesei234 · 29/03/2023 17:16

@DustyLee123 if you mean what I think you mean that’s really not good. Rape isn’t funny.

It would be if it happened to him!

😂

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 29/03/2023 23:18

ClaraThePigeon · 29/03/2023 16:43

This is the sort of crime where they should seriously consider whether the perpetrator should ever be released. There was no provocation or excuse for his totally disproportionate and gratuitous reaction. Anger issues, bloody hell, looks like he was on an absolute hair trigger looking for any excuse to batter someone.

I agree. I felt physically ill when I read this story and still do. I hope that he receives a very long sentence and doesn't know a moment's peace or happiness again in his life. This was a very deliberate act of savage cruelty. The furtherest thing possible from a mistake,

Totally agree...

If we take this elderly lady's mistake out of the equation... (the mistake was so minor.. Abs surely most people would express surprise /amusement /confusion? Totally disproportionate.

Essentially, a huge man savagely beat and murdered a 7.5 stone elderly lady, by stamping on her....

Sickening.

Utterly vile.

SemperIdem · 29/03/2023 23:23

She was a tiny, elderly woman, he could have escorted from the property without hurting her easily, if he had wanted to.

He brutally battered her to death instead.

I hope his custodial sentence is a long and unpleasant one.

Crazyshihtzulady · 29/03/2023 23:30

EggBlanket · 29/03/2023 21:17

She wasn’t asleep. She was sat in his bed drinking gin and tonic. He asked her to leave and she became argumentative.

I’m obviously not excusing his behaviour, but at least read the news report.

Her behaviour was extremely strange. I expect there is more than meets the eye here.

You definitely sound like you're defending his actions and it's sickening!

Of course her behaviour was strange, she was a drunk lost elderly lady with possible dementia!

Nothing can justify what he did to her, nothing, so don't try to, it's weird that you even would.

WalkingThroughTreacle · 29/03/2023 23:34

Doesn't matter how she got in there or why. All that matters is what he did. There was absolutely no excuse for it and IMHO someone who can overreact in such an extreme manner should die in prison. How can you possibly risk allowing someone who would do this, in these circumstances, to be free? They will always be a threat to the weak and the vulnerable.

If i was in that situation, all relevant factors being the same, I'd either have called an ambulance if I thought she needed medical attention or I'd just have let her sleep it off and kept an eye on her for her own safety. No way I'd even peacefully eject an elderly and confused woman into the streets on her own in the middle of the night.

I hope the other prisoners make his life inside unbearable and preferably much shorter than nature intended.

MrsPinkCock · 29/03/2023 23:57

Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:34

He is clearly a vicious thug and a killer, but from the confusing article I read I was left wondering why he was accused of murder and not manslaughter. I am sure there is a reason, but on the face of it his aim was to use force to remove her from his house, not to kill her. And she wasn't a gentle old lady, she was an alcoholic who arrived on the train and went to the pub, rather than finding her hotel. I can only assume that when she arrived at his house thinking it was a hotel she was too drunk to wonder why there was no reception to check her booking and giver her a key. None of this excuses his behaviour, but it does beg the question of why murder rather than manslaughter. I wouldn't be vicious and I would probably call the police, but I would be pretty furious if I went to my bedroom and found a stranger sitting in my bed with a gin in hand, who then refused to leave.

The law in England says that it’s murder even if you intend to cause harm (but not kill). So you could push someone down a hill hoping to break their leg and actually they die from a head injury, but as you intended harm, the fact that their death wasn’t intended is inconsequential.

Manslaughter is reserved for cases where there is negligence, but no intent to harm. Clearly he intended to harm her as his actions went way beyond reasonable force.

marzipansux · 30/03/2023 01:30

Genevieva · 29/03/2023 21:34

He is clearly a vicious thug and a killer, but from the confusing article I read I was left wondering why he was accused of murder and not manslaughter. I am sure there is a reason, but on the face of it his aim was to use force to remove her from his house, not to kill her. And she wasn't a gentle old lady, she was an alcoholic who arrived on the train and went to the pub, rather than finding her hotel. I can only assume that when she arrived at his house thinking it was a hotel she was too drunk to wonder why there was no reception to check her booking and giver her a key. None of this excuses his behaviour, but it does beg the question of why murder rather than manslaughter. I wouldn't be vicious and I would probably call the police, but I would be pretty furious if I went to my bedroom and found a stranger sitting in my bed with a gin in hand, who then refused to leave.

This post should be removed.
" she wasn't a gentle old lady, she was an alcoholic". As if it isn't possible to be both and as if that makes a skerrick of difference. Shameful post @Genevieva

FlyingCherries · 30/03/2023 08:08

EggBlanket · 29/03/2023 21:17

She wasn’t asleep. She was sat in his bed drinking gin and tonic. He asked her to leave and she became argumentative.

I’m obviously not excusing his behaviour, but at least read the news report.

Her behaviour was extremely strange. I expect there is more than meets the eye here.

That was what the violent murdered claimed. The prosecution said she was sleeping. Why are you parroting the words of a violent murderer as though they’re fact?

caramac04 · 30/03/2023 08:17

Clovacloud · 29/03/2023 16:41

I’m so pleased he’s been convicted, hopefully he’ll get life. If you find an old lady asleep in your house, you’d have concern for her, not drag her out of the house by her feet and stamp on her. He’s an utter psychopath.

Yes, where was any thought of care for this poor woman who was clearly no threat to anyone.
What kind of monster would lay hands on an old lady let alone do what he did.